Orgasm during breastfeeding? Why not?
It is clear that the rules of good behavior during eating the child does not master from the first days and even months of life, and later, when he sits at the table and takes a spoon in his hands. And before that?
Can he break the etiquette? Of course, yes, there are many reasons for that. And what remains for my mother: to endure and adapt?
Not at all. We open secrets.
doctor, lactation consultant, ACEV, teacher of the WHO / UNICEF course on breastfeeding, Private Children’s Clinic, Moscow
In the babies’ meal are two. And everyone has their own reasons – mood, well-being, character, in the end. As a rule, the interests of the partners coincide: the baby wants to eat, and the mother is ready to feed to grow and be healthy.
But sometimes something can go wrong.
Sleep or eat? Both that, and another – in turn and simultaneously, in a half-sleep to suck a breast and, having eaten, even more strongly to fall asleep to gain strength for the next meal. After birth, the child is in completely new conditions, which must quickly adapt, otherwise it will not survive.
The adaptation process is divided into several periods. And if some functions, for example, respiratory, are started immediately, then the rest are switched on gradually.
The first day or even two babies almost do not eat, after receiving a few drops of colostrum, he falls asleep and gaining strength. Mom worries, because the youngster is hungry, decanting and storing milk.
Sometimes women during breastfeeding experience sexual arousal and even orgasm. And then they are ashamed of this. And in vain!
Stimulation of the nipples leads to the release of oxytocin; he is responsible for the milk output from the chest, and at the same time, as expected, causes uterine contractions and a sense of satisfaction. After researching this topic, more than 40% of nursing women talked about this effect, and almost 17% admitted that they are experiencing it quite often.
Experts, on the other hand, rarely discuss this phenomenon. Perhaps, because there is nothing dangerous or wrong in it.
But in vain, because moms are worried.
Am I insane ?! My nipples have always been an erogenous zone. At the beginning of feeding, she felt only physical relief from the leaving milk.
And now the lactation is established, and as soon as the baby begins to suck, there is a desire to finish quickly - and to the husband under the barrel. I'm angry with myself.
Lana, the Samara region
Why take it all out for a general discussion? This is also related to your child, and I personally do not even think about thinking about exciting ...
Get angry because it all goes against the generally accepted beliefs that getting such feelings from the child is wrong! And my problem is the opposite: no desire, libido at zero.
But this is not an excitement, it's an internal itch.