We otsuchaem baby from the breast correctly: ways, rules, myths and what to do is not worth it
Breastfeeding a newborn baby is the most natural condition for every young mother. In this way she gives him her love and protection, strengthens her immunity, maintains close tactile and psychological contact, very important and necessary for the correct development of the baby. But even with the most successful breastfeeding, there comes a time when mom begins to wonder how to wean from breastfeeding her already grown and strengthened child.
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You can wait for the natural involution of the breast; condition, when the breast itself ceases to produce milk, the glandular tissue of the breast is gradually replaced with fat and the breast returns to its pre-pregnancy state.
Or, focusing on the state of the child’s sucking need, wait for his complete self-weaning from the mother’s breast.
But, not every mother is able to go through this whole lengthy process. Many factors affect this; physical and emotional fatigue from long-feeding, unpleasant or painful sensations in the chest in the process of feeding an adult child, its frequent; hanging; on the chest, very similar to the hanging; newborn baby, wrong capture or just the pampering of the baby at the breast.
Other reasons to stop breastfeeding your baby may be the need to go to work, travel, hospitalization or shaky health at mom’s and just public opinion. Long-breastfed mothers today, unfortunately, often cause rather bewilderment or even censure among others than general approval.
Depending on the urgency of excommunication, you can choose one of the ways to wean the child from breastfeeding. They differ from each other both in the rate of excommunication and in stress; and traumatism for mother and child.
You can stop breastfeeding by applying:
- Grandmother’s way;
- Drug method;
- Soft or natural way.
Video: how did we finish breastfeeding:
How were our mothers, grandmothers and great-grandmothers weaned from the breast? Very simple method, but exceptionally harsh and traumatic for both mother and baby; strongly tightened the chest sheets, while sending the child for a while to relatives.
Breast in this case should not be bandaged; just enough to wear a comfortable and not tight bra without pits.
If you feel filling and bursting in your chest, you need to express it, but slightly, only to a sense of relief. This is not allowed a painful condition of the breast of the mother and is not provoked an increase in lactation. Gradually, the breasts cease to produce milk, and the baby ceases to demand breast.
It is less problematic for a mother and a baby to otkuchit a child to suck a breast in this way. The child continues to communicate with his mother, the confidential relationship remains, the excommunication takes place more gently and not too quickly, as in the case of the application of the grandmother's method; But the drug hormonal intervention in the female body is still applicable only in exceptional cases.
Soft excommunication; this is a fairly long process, taking up to half a year or more. This is not an involution or self-exclusion, but a deliberate gradual cessation of feeding, depending on the readiness for this process of the child. What is required for this or what steps need to be taken:
- Gradually abolish all chaotic and not very necessary day-feeding; when the child is simply tired, bored, requires consolation or communication, trying instead to devote more time to other activities; games, walks, entertainment;
- Gradually cancel the day-time feeding of the child, in a dream; and, near sleep, replacing them with reading fairy tales, singing or rocking;
- Gradually abolish the morning feeding, to wake up, having woken up before the child and having cooked him a kashka for breakfast;
- gradually cancel the evening feeding, before going to bed, feeding the child a hearty dinner and continuing to distract him with tales, tactile contact and motion sickness;
- Gradually cancel the remaining night feeding, switching to stroking the child and hugging in a dream.
Choosing from all existing and current practices of weaning, it is much easier to complete breastfeeding, focusing on the readiness for this very child.
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