The child swears: who is to blame and what to do
You probably already faced the first shock of hearing bad words.
As a rule, children bring home such expressions, beginning with three years, and even earlier, as soon as they began to interact with the society. The most interesting words for kids are always spoken in a whisper and behind a closed door, so it’s so interesting to eavesdrop and say at the right time.
The older the child becomes, the more he realizes the meaning of what has been said, but, nevertheless, he does not refuse to use abuse, even if his parents abuse it (especially if the parents scold him).
Mum-forumchanka Alesya writes: My son is 6 years old. He is very aggressive now. When someone talks to him on the street, they can even call him. If I do something against him, he screams all the way to the street, calls himself names. My husband and I have wine in this too: we often swore at the child, they did not filter. I’m trying to somehow stop it, but I can not figure out how to wean my son. On the lips, what to beat? I tried to explain, to talk heart to heart, but he listens, and then again does the same.
Mama Oksana advises: You need a strong parental authority. Once already talked many times, then the child does not listen simply. And stop cursing yourself. If the word comes out of Mom or Dad, let the second parent scold him and take away the sweet. The son needs to see that it is bad and punishable, and not only for him .