My daughter went to the first class – not even believe it! It seems to me that quite recently I wore her in my arms, lulled me, walked with a carriage. And now the school is joyful and scary at the same time. New stage in life for me.
At school, you need to be more independent. So, as in the kindergarten, you no longer damage. They won’t lisp with you there.
Little about daughter
Our child is independent by half. How is it – you ask? After all, children indulge a little, you know. Something she does, and in some ways I help her, because she still does not know how much. The role of the strict parent went, of course, to me. And the rest is a little spoiled.
My daughter’s character, like mine, is fickle. She is demanding and at the same time, if offended, she is easily appeased. She is rather slow, she needs to be customized all the time (this character trait does not apply to me).
Recently, she has attacks of harm: she does not want to engage, does not want to play toys, only watches cartoons all day. Turn off – hysterical rhinestones.
How can a child become independent?
I myself notice that it is easier and faster for me to do something for the child than he will do it himself. For example, I sometimes lack the patience to watch it squeeze out a paste from a tube. It turns out that I do half the work for her.
At this age (my daughter is 7 years old) it is quite difficult to get the child’s attention for a long time, and it’s difficult to get him to do something with just one. But we are trying.
one. Try to approach your homework with a creative side. Then the child will be more interesting to perform it.
2 If the child gets tired quickly, divide the task into 2-3 parts.
3 Change your business frequently. Remember that children at this age can not do the same thing for a long time.
We, of course, force our daughter to brush her teeth by herself. Let a little ineptly, but still she does it herself. I dressed myself, put on shoes. She only learns to fasten buttons and zippers herself.
My daughter has such a bad trait – if something doesn’t work, she immediately says I can’t after the first unsuccessful attempt. I say that everything will work out for her. Where doubts such – I do not know. I hope in the near future she will become independent, she will be all in mom 🙂
Are your children independent?