Many mothers pierce their daughters’ ears literally from birth. Sometimes it saves them from eternal questions, who is it with you: a boy or a girl? These questions did not bother me at all. I abandoned the idea of piercing my daughter’s ears. And now she is not very pleased.
My arguments against
In the sadikovsky group, the daughter of many girls have earrings in their ears. And almost all of them wear them from the creche, and ears pierced in infancy. I was totally against such a step. And still do not support this idea in relation to his daughter. And that’s why:
one. When the child was very small, I would just be scared to carry out the treatment until the ears healed.
Firstly, it hurts, but you can’t persuade the little one to calm down. I would have to do this with combat.
Secondly, I had such crazy days with a child that it was not even thought about piercing the ears. And if she had, she would probably have gone mad.
2 When she became a little older, I somehow flashed the idea. But I still dismissed her. A child climbs everywhere, dabbles, clings to everything. When she dresses, she often touches her ears with her clothes, gets angry when she can’t get dressed. If you had earrings on your ears, you would always have to cover your wounds.
3 This year the daughter will go to school. And this is another argument for me so far not to pierce her ears. I remember myself in school. And although I didn’t have earrings in junior classes, my ears and hair often suffered there.
How to be with earrings?
One daughter came up to me with a question: Mom, and when you were born, did you already have holes in your ears? I had to explain to the child what was happening. I had my ears pierced already in senior classes. Just by that time, the procedure began to do a pistol, and care for the ears was easier.
And, nevertheless, remembering the healing process, I never regretted that I had not done this before. How many times have I clung to them with clothes, hair! And how many times she injured the holes with the same earrings that pierced her ears! And again began treatment to healing.
Therefore, I decided for myself that the daughters were piercing the ears, too, closer to the senior classes, when she herself could look after them, follow. Naturally, if she does not give up this idea by this time. Which, of course, is unlikely.
In the meantime, her grandmother gave her old, but still brilliant clips, and this was quite enough to satisfy the desire to be more beautiful than all. For two days she walked into them in the kindergarten and forgot. And with punctures so it would not have done.
Did you pierce your girls ears?