I am the mother of a wonderful girl. It seems that she was born very recently. From the photos a little helpless little man in a pink hat with ears looks at me. And sitting at the table, draws an adult girl with her tastes and habits, beautiful and five minutes to schoolgirl.
Every year it is harder for me to make decisions about raising my daughter. Which circle to give? How to teach her neatness and good manners? How to develop perseverance and hard work?
I want to raise my daughter so as not to regret the mistakes made in old age. I want to tell you, dear readers Alimero, what qualities I try to instill in my little lady 🙂
This quality is incredibly important for the future of the girl. In order to develop it, there will be too little talk on this topic. The main thing is a personal example.
For example, I never wear old clothes or bathrobes at home. Both myself and my daughter I buy pretty knitted suits especially for the house. I am sure that having accustomed to this since childhood, my daughter will never allow herself to walk in front of her husband in stretched pants and a shapeless T-shirt. Even if we plan to spend the whole day at home, it is imperative that I have a beautiful haircut for my daughter and styling.
As you know, femininity is not only a neat appearance. First of all, it is related to behavior. Therefore, I try not to raise my voice and not to use ugly words in the presence of my daughter. And yet – never quarrel with her husband with her.
Every girl will sooner or later have to face household chores. I do not want her to become a bad hostess, but the future son-in-law cursed me 🙂 Therefore, I have been teaching my daughter to do housework from a very young age.
She has her own responsibilities. For example, wipe off the dust during cleaning, fold dirty dishes in the sink after dinner and pour the orchid that was presented to her on her birthday. Folding toys on shelves and clothes in the closet, as well as making the bed is not discussed.
Kindness and responsibility
This is very helpful pets. We have fish and a cat. Moreover, the cat bought specifically at the request of his daughter. Of course, like all children, she likes to play with a cat. But she will never forget to share a patty with him or remind me that it’s time for my pet to have lunch.
I have listed only the most basic qualities that I try to instill in my daughter. In addition to them, there are no less important: accuracy, good taste, sense of humor.
And what qualities, in your opinion, are most important to develop in girls?