You can often hear the male point of view: The wife does not work, stays at home with the child. But it is precisely the round-the-clock stay with the baby, the continuous process of upbringing is also hard work, and hard work is not easy at all.
This is one of the qualities that is constantly lacking. If it were for sale, I would be a regular customer 🙂 After all, as often happens, convince yourself that you will not raise your voice for the baby, and then you can not hold back at the sight of your favorite cream, which is smeared on the walls of the bathroom.
Here you can advise a lot – from the account to ten to go to another room. However, the most important thing to remember is that the baby is much harder than you, so you should be a support for him, and not a mother at all, who breaks down on each of his offenses.
Recently, a friend of mine, a mother of three wonderful sons, said that we need to raise children, not ourselves, because children are a reflection of us. I can not disagree with her, because it does not make sense to teach the child courtesy, if we ourselves do not follow the basic rules of etiquette, and in a family where there are mate and fights, the baby dandelion is unlikely to grow.
Popular wisdom says that oranges will not be born from osinki. Therefore, it should be remembered that the use of obscene expressions at home is a guarantee that your baby will use them on the playground. But assault is fraught with the fact that such a model of man’s behavior will be perceived by a small boy as normal.
The appearance of a child in the family is an incentive to review their behavior and attitude in the family, because it’s never too late to start working on yourself. And doing it with your child is much easier!
They really change with many moms. Many of my friends, who could spontaneously rush at least to the other end of the country a couple of years ago, are now unable to step aside, because they have become mothers.
Of course, one should not argue that with the advent of a child, life ends, no. It is just beginning, but … different. Someone begins to prefer a quality dream to a nightclub, and someone thinks ten times before parachuting.
Here, as in everything, it is important to avoid fanaticism. Some of my friends are so much given to the child that they completely forget about themselves. Yes, and I had several times so that I went to buy clothes for myself and eventually left all the money in the children’s store. A child is good, but you should never forget about your appearance and self-care.
In addition to ensuring safety and comfortable conditions for the growth of the child, the role of parents is to lay the foundation of correct behavior in the baby, instill confidence in themselves, instill respect for others and familiarize them with the basic moral standards.
Not worth leaving education for later. It only seems that the child is still small, he will grow up, and then we will tell him what and how. Children absorb like a sponge, they subtly notice almost everything – your behavior, attentively listen to the speech of others, watch your actions and their consequences.
What do you think, what is the difficulty of raising a child?