Boys prefer war games, cars, noisy and active actions. And the girls? Games in life – daughters-mothers, to the store, doctor-patient. Why is that?
Probably for the reason that the girl has a maternal instinct since birth, the desire to take care of someone. Similar games – preparation for motherhood. Therefore, it makes sense to start education with the right toys. Of course, not all girls and do not always play with dolls. But more often, the doll is the baby’s favorite toy.
Ideally, the girl needs her own little nest, which she can equip – with a dollhouse or toy furniture, dishes, household items. In this case it is impossible to invade this corner without the need! No need to rearrange something to your liking and authoritatively declare that it is necessary. By such actions, you can achieve the fact that the girl has an uncertainty in her abilities and an unwillingness to learn something new – after all, parents do not appreciate this.
From about one year old, it’s time to involve a girl in everyday life. But it is obligatory in the form of a game so that it does not get bored and better learned new knowledge. You can buy a toy mop or whisk, scoop. Show baby how to use them and ask to get out, say, in his corner.
It is clear that mom will still have to redo everything, but the child will be happy, because he made a feasible contribution to adult affairs. Many mommies care about how to dress a girl.
It seems to me that it is worth giving the baby a choice. More frisky girls will probably prefer pants, and little princesses – dresses. In the wardrobe of the daughter, the clothes should not be monotonous, but different in color and style, so that there is something to choose from. Combining things one by one or with mom, the baby learns the combination of shades and brings up taste.
Especially loved girls mom’s makeup bag. They certainly want to smear all these wonderful shadows, lipsticks, and in front of someone to show off. Please the daughter, collect her a small cosmetic bag – children’s cream, hygienic lipstick, safe toilet water, baby powder with glitter. Teach moderation – how much makeup and for what reason you need to apply.
The same with everyday and festive clothes. Let the baby learn the rules of good form in the choice of clothes. Mom plays an invaluable role in the life of a girl. It is in intimate conversations with mommy that she comprehends the female sacraments. In order not to destroy the trust that has arisen between the mother and daughter, you need to impress the girl that with any problem she can turn to her mother, and she will understand and help her.
And there are a lot of secrets that you want to trust in her life – the first kiss, the first date, and then the first adult experience of love. Mother is also responsible for the woman into which her daughter will turn. It is necessary to lay in her head the image of a happy family, where the husband protects and cherishes his wife, and the wife surrounds her with the comfort and care of her husband.
You do not need to inspire a girl and a girl that men are irresponsible and selfish, even if your own relationships have not developed. It is better to say that there are fewer good men, but you should not waste your time on unsuitable people, it’s better to wait a bit and build a really happy family.
However, much depends on the girl – you need to be modest, patient, interesting, not to succumb to bad habits and bad language. Such women are valued and cherished.