It would seem – 2 years, what should he worry about? But sometimes you just wonder how much he already understands, thinks a lot and remembers a lot.
Recently, in the village, the son walked behind me and showed me a typewriter with two wheels somewhere. He was clearly upset by this fact and repeated everything: the wheels broke. There is nothing to do, I quit my affairs and went to look. Well, the wheels were quickly found, not far in the grass. You should have seen how much joy appeared in his eyes from the stocked look of an old toy!
The son loves his cap very much and, intending to walk, puts it on first. We are going home from grandmother. Got out of the car, go along the sidewalk. The son suddenly became alarmed: Forgotten, forgot a cap from granny! I soothe him that the cap is in the bag. If you had forgotten, you probably would have to come back :))
Once we really forgot. Kota in the village. Just do not rush to condemn us, the cat from this only better. After all, we left him alone and on the street, and his grandmother. She will feed him, of course, and in general, the cat feels like home there. We just try to bring it only for the weekend, because the mother-in-law has a fluffy pet. And then they hurried … They remembered on the way, talked, decided that we would not return. Now, if we go without a cat, the son often makes a panic that we have forgotten: They left home !.
Mom leaves without him
This is our eternal problem. Going to the store. Son has to persuade to let me alone. I promise to buy him something. Agrees, but for some time does not leave the hallway. Worth waiting. Oh, and soon to go to the garden.
Even while I was sitting, eating my favorite macaroni, staying with my sister, I kept myself all the time and constantly looked out the window: where is my mother there? So I had to break away from planting flowers and go into the house so that the child calmly ate.
Someone is pushing his toys
This is a more serious problem. More recently, the son of possessiveness has become aggravated, let’s say. If someone comes to his bike, sits on it (and this happens every time, as soon as the son leaves two steps away from his great), he throws everything and runs to drive the invader. I read on this topic. It turns out that many children have such periods. It is more correct to wait it out, not to irritate the child. After all, if a toy is taken from him, at the moment he believes that this has happened forever.
I explain to him that his bicycle or car will not disappear anywhere, I suggest that you sit on another bicycle – other children feel comfortable with this and regularly change vehicles, but the son wants to sit only on his bicycle. I ask other moms to treat with understanding and … we are going with the son to ride around the neighborhood. I hope that gradually he will pass.
Here are our reasons for experiences in our 2 years with a little. Not ah what problems, but sometimes you have to think: what to do, what to say, how to react.