We dream of the best for our children. When it comes time to choose a garden, as a rule, we are looking for the best in the area. Moms at our site believe that the SBU-shny kindergarten is the best. And all the same, that his playground is located above the road, with regular trailers during children’s walks. And the fence around the garden while in the mesh.
Those who are still stopped by the entry fee to the SBU-shny kindergarten (it is three times larger than any other in the neighborhood) are attracted by a speech therapy kindergarten. There, it turns out, the tutors are the best, and the programs are advanced, and the children there are even hardened.
To get there just like that is impossible. Besides the fact that there are no permanent places there, certain conditions are also needed, supported by documented people in white coats. On the Internet there are whole schemes with price lists, how to get the necessary directions.
But for some reason, mothers forget that the profile of the institution requires a special training program. In this case, aimed at correcting speech. One can imagine how a child feels in the classroom, who has no problems with speech. To put it mildly, uncomfortable.
So it happened to one of my friends that the son completely refused to go to the best kindergarten in the area just because he was not interested – he did all this without work in the kindergarten, so they seemed to him stupid. I had to transfer the child among years by hook or by crook to an ordinary kindergarten.
And for me the minus of this kindergarten was that after it was closed, some of the laborers, who live in my house, walk their dog there in the evenings. How many neighbors didn’t curse with him – he was damned.
After I re-read everything I found about the kindergartens in the district, my brain was swollen and everything that was responsible for analytical thinking and decision-making turned off. The same institution is scolded by some, others are praised. Without further ado, I just walked around the gardens around and gave my daughter where I was taken. And absolutely no regrets about my choice.
Judge about kindergarten by teachers in general is unreliable. Today they work here, tomorrow there. It turns out today that one garden is good, tomorrow another. You will not be the child for the tutor to drive through the gardens.
An educational program-minimum in any one is done one hundred percent, while in the kindergartens, checks are carried out regularly and meticulously. Yes, in our not all educators suit me, as teachers. The child also doesn’t really like kindergarten because of individuals.
But it seems to me that such communication hardens the child’s psyche to some extent – he sees and understands that not all adults can be an authority, not everyone is perfect and is looking for his own ways of interacting with them. A little extreme in communication is still better than greenhouse conditions. Moreover, the family always remains a stronghold for the child.
In general, in spite of some flaws in the kindergarten, I see that the task of the social, mental and creative development of my child copes. And I don’t need more. I am not going to raise genius. I want to grow a self-sufficient person, and without difficulties in life it is impossible.
And how did you choose the garden?