At work, I come across completely different children. Truth told daughter of a daughter, a teacher, that the staff of the kindergarten in the course of events that occur in families of children. Here you don’t even have to ask, usually children post information on their own.
Not only would I want to reflect on this today. I do not in any way want my child to be considered rude. Therefore, the rules of communication with adults occupy far from the last place.
One of my friends often complains that her son calls completely strangers to you. This may be a cashier in the store or a housemate. Indeed, the face here is quite thin. So, it is impossible to explain to the child that you should contact absolutely all adults. The question immediately arises. But why then can you turn to your grandmother?
Even if you make a correction, and say that you can only refer to relatives, then why can you turn in the same way to my mother’s friends? Even among unfamiliar people there are different options – with neighbors / peers, for example, I communicate with you, even though we are not close friends.
That is why this aspect should be discussed in advance with the child. Much, of course, depends on the teacher. For example, in the classroom with her daughter, her teacher was about 20 years old. She only presented herself by name beforehand and said that you could turn to her.
I repeat, all children are different – different characters, temperaments and behavior. But there are generally accepted standards of behavior in schools. That is why, no matter how active the child is, it is unacceptable to sit on the desks, be rude to the teacher, poking around in the nose, or blowing bubbles out of saliva.
Unfortunately, children do not always recognize the authority of the teacher. I think that should not be so. After all, if at home it is necessary to obey the parents, then at school their role is performed by the teacher.
Consequently, the reasons lie precisely in the lack of respect, obedience and discipline within the family.
Without it in any way. If the family is not the most personable way to speak about teachers, then with absolute certainty it can be argued that the attitude of the child to the teacher will be similar.
Therefore, even as a joke, it is not worth discussing controversial moments with a child. It is very likely that he will transmit your phrases with a precision of a comma.
Learning is not a game (even in the lower grades, sometimes there are game elements). Of course, childhood is not over yet, but the educational process should be taken seriously. It seems to me that the current position of teachers in public institutions after all their authority has shaken. Judge for yourself, about thirty years ago the teacher was a respected person who was honored even by high school students. And now, quite often I observe the devil-may-care attitude not only of the children, but also of their parents towards the representatives of this beautiful profession.
At six to seven years old, the child is already able to control his emotions and behavior. Justification Well, he’s small! no longer work. Believe me, it is very unpleasant to work with children who interrupt, shout and turn their backs in the middle of a lesson. Just because they were suddenly bored or their attention was attracted by some object.
Of course, such behavior can be justified by individual characteristics or current trend that promotes indulgence in children’s whims and desires. A great way to hide the lack of elementary education, do not you think?
And how do you think the child should relate to the teacher?