If a girl under five has time to impress that she is a princess, then in the future she will be able to inspire it to the whole world – very fair words that you cannot argue with! If you want to grow a real lady – go for it. The future of your little beauty is exclusively in your hands!
First of all, evaluate your own unbiased behavior. What examples does your child observe day after day? It is not surprising that your princess may grow up to be a scandalous person, if you show up in quarrels and negative emotions in colors.
It is very important that in your house there is no abuse, mate, mutual insults. At least in the presence of his daughter. Remember that all responsibility for how a person grows up, lies entirely on you.
For example, we always talked with our universal darling as an adult, an equal companion. We tried to express ourselves exquisitely and literary, without weed words.
And she quickly learned a similar technique. Now teachers and all adults praise her for creative and correct speech.
Strictly censor movies and cartoons that she watches, games she plays. All sources of information should form nobility, spirituality, intellectuality and other rainbow features of your daughter.
It is better not to leave her tete-a-tete with the TV, given that now it is twisted. The same applies to computers and other equipment. The function of an intelligent parent as an educator is to exercise careful control.
My niece likes to watch zomboyaschik very much, which is why, honestly, I am not happy. I think that when I have my children, they will receive video information in a strictly metered and only of the highest quality. Without any nonsense.
Therefore, I do not allow my niece, when I am babysitting with her, to watch TV for a long time. And I prefer it to be inspired by instructive programs, as well as spiritual videos instead of stupid cartoons and TV shows broadcast on TNT and similar channels.
Personally, I do not understand those parents and educators who do not filter information sources on which the child is growing up.
It is very important that your baby turns into a multi-faceted personality. To do this, teach her to work from childhood, teach the rules of etiquette, constantly give wise, useful advice and admonitions, strongly encourage her interest in creativity and knowledge.
Not bad, if from early childhood your baby will communicate with a wide range of people, see a large number of wonderful places on the planet, meet many friends.
For example, since childhood, my nephew has become accustomed to changing its dislocation frequently and to contact a huge number of people. I think this is a great basis for further victories in life.
Especially important in the girl to develop aesthetic taste. Let her more often draws, paints, sculpts. Let her combine her outfits herself, choose her clothes. Remember that all women raising a little lady should also be at their best.
It is especially important that your baby was not afraid of the camera and camcorders, and was always able to show itself in all its glory, bringing to the fore the dignity of their appearance.
Our girl loves creativity. And perhaps this is my merit. I spent a lot of time with her, watching the creative processes, as well as bringing to her the whole importance of creation as a lifestyle.
Now she can not decide whether to go to her vocals, art school or dance. But still she is more inclined to drawing.
I note she draws very peculiar. And maybe a little ingenious.
Chat with boys
The future queen should not assimilate any harmful stereotypes and prejudices, especially gender ones. Protect her from any chauvinism. Explain to her that people are different, and it does not depend on gender and other similar characteristics.
Our baby has never heard from us silly and embittered generalizations. Therefore, it now evaluates people based on their personality traits.
Your task is to teach her how to love and appreciate herself as early as possible. Plus – to give smart advice on how to properly contact with the young representatives of the stronger sex.
For example, we taught our princess not to be afraid of the opposite sex. She can independently take the initiative, for example, when dating, but does not cross the line, that is, avoids obsessive behavior.
You want to talk with the boy – come and talk, but if he does not want to communicate, then do not worry and look for a new victim of his charm. And never humiliate yourself before anyone. – My nephew mastered these recommendations for five points.
And now almost all the neighbors and kindergarten boys are in love with her!)
In short, if you intend to grow a true lady, try to take everything into account in advance and prevent any mistakes anywhere.