The birth of a child is always the happiest event for parents. The first smiles, the first time holding a toy in his hand, the first laugh, crawled and then it began … You can not go there, do not touch it, you will hit it, there the vase will fall on your head, and so on to infinity.
How can the smallest ban?
This invasion also did not pass me by, my baby was a very inquisitive child, he touched everything around, even when we passed by the trees, he squeezed the leaves with a death grip, and tore the twig from the tree by force, and that was all in 3 months.
As time went on, the baby grew up and the interests of course increased. All wardrobes, all bedside tables enjoyed crazy demand, do not bother to constantly tell the kid there, do not touch – I didn’t want, because you need to know the world – to develop. We decided that it is necessary to protect the child from danger as much as possible, to the maximum, not prohibiting him to go towards knowledge.
Dangerous objects were moved higher, the sockets were closed with plugs and pushed back with chairs, sofas, chairs, if possible. Special lockers were put on the bedside tables, of course, they left him several bedside tables so that the child could tear off to the fullest. We made an apartment as safe as possible for our children.
At this age, it is better to give less prohibitions, the child is just starting to live, he is interested in everything around, but here it is impossible so much. If for a time to protect him from danger, until he himself understands that it is impossible to touch it, it will be much more confusing. Bans are often also undesirable to use, because the response will only be in the form of stubbornness, it is better to switch the child’s attention to some kind of possible.
The second stage is impossible
Here our little one was growing up, he started walking, and then his mom started having even more headaches. The first time I went on the street with my legs, I was no longer in a wheelchair, but I myself went and began to learn everything around – it was here that it began.
Everywhere there are so many interesting things, I want to touch everything, and even more to put it in my mouth, but my mother can’t do anything, but you can’t!
In such cases, it is imperative to explain and prohibit the child to do so. But it is also necessary to understand that the knowledge of the world in children is a feeling of feeling the objects, and when he takes in his mouth, he acquires the experience of touch. Here we need to be more vigilant, and of course, wash hands and toys more often, so as not to lead to gastrointestinal infections.
And we must always remember that it is necessary to prohibit in moderation, and of course, in the counterweight should be as much possible. And in no case do not frighten the child, do not go there, otherwise the uncle will put him in a bag and steal, children’s fears, this is very dangerous, they can last a lifetime. You have to be careful with them.
What came of it
Now we are 2.6 and I can say that I have an obedient boy growing up. Of course, there were difficult moments, after 2 years, when he was capricious, did not want to listen, but wanted to do it his own way, but I tried to be patient in every possible way and still convey to him that this could not be done and always explained why it was impossible.
I always say this: Slavik, please do not go to the outlet, there is a current there, it can strike, you can remount the car to a better one, please speak magically to it, well, and it switches very easily, which is very convenient.
It is always possible to tell and explain to the child in a calm tone, so that he understands. You need to listen to the child and look for the true key that will help grow healthy children.
What is your key to your child?