I recently had a dream that a child was stolen from me. I woke up in a terrible panic and suddenly realized that my child does not know how to behave in such situations. After all, children do not grab the armpit and are not taken away, they themselves follow the kidnappers.
Where do you get these thoughts from
In the dream, the child was kidnapped while she was sitting somewhere in some classes. We do not go to any classes, but I decided that I had a dream for a simple reason. For some reason, just before falling asleep, for some reason I remembered a film with Angelina Jley Substitution. I watched for a long time, but, apparently, is still under the impression.
And although the cause of sleep calmed me, I still thought. I remembered the case of a 10-year-old girl who disappeared in our area a couple of years ago. The last time she was seen near the highway, and no matter how hard her parents tried, no matter how the public helped them, they did not find the child.
There was a memory of a case read on the forum. One of the mothers told how she went to the consultation, took her three-year-old son with her, as there was nobody left to leave. Her turn came, left to look for the baby a woman from the queue. When I got out, I didn’t see her or the baby.
The women from the queue said that she had entered the office, and the boy had been taken away by some old lady, who was also in the queue. Mom rushed into the street and barely managed to catch them at the bus stop. The elderly lady lamented: Here you have another one, and I already will not have one …
Cases, of course, are shocking and you cannot foresee them all. But, in my opinion, elementary prevention of kidnapping should be done.
Long weighed words, but decided to hold a conversation with the child on this topic. After talking about what she had dreamed, I confessed what dream I had. We just walked through the park by the handle. On the word stole the child frantically squeezed my hand. So I think the lesson learned.
After analyzing the situations described above, I told her that I would never, under any circumstances, send any unfamiliar uncles and aunts to her. If I can’t take her, for example, from the kindergarten, I’ll send my aunt, grandmother or dad for her. No one else.
Sometimes children are deceived not only by uncles or aunts, but also grandmothers, grandfathers, and even other children. Whoever calls for them, saying that mom or something interesting is waiting for you around the corner, turn around and go to the adult who looks after you: caregiver, nurse, grandmother.
I’m not sure that she will remember this for a long time. Children’s memory is short. But if periodically and unobtrusively remind her of this, I think that if God forbid such a critical situation happens, he will remember the conversations and do the right thing.
And you bother with such problems?