Miracles, of course, does not happen. And all sorts of magic usually have a car and a small cart of work, worries and difficulties.
But what prevents to dream? Moreover, some consider the thoughts material, and indeed, it is not harmful to dream, it is harmful not to dream !.
In my understanding, a magic child is one with whom a minimum of worries and troubles, who understands the request of elders from the first time, is diligent and active, cleans up toys, goes to bed on time himself, does not fight with other children and eats what they give (I almost got carried aside by myself, makes my mother a manicure, and at leisure struggles with the proof of the Poincaré theorem).
My girlfriend’s daughter didn’t like being in her mother’s arms. Apparently, she was aware of something about the back device. I did not believe it, but over time I have met such babies more, and I was personally convinced that the children who calm down only outside of my mother’s hands, exist.
On my own experience, I was convinced that there are children who, being breastfed, eat quickly (5 minutes!), Rarely (every 3 hours!) And at the same time their monthly weight gain approaches the upper limit of normalcy.
Also I, or rather, my back, was lucky during the first steps of my daughter. She was sitting in a wheelchair to the last, and went only when she could surely do it. Rather, did not go, and ran. Take my word, I never walked in a pose sic bent over in three deaths, supporting the child by the arms, for he frantically wanted to walk, but could not, alas and oh.
But, I confess honestly, the first 10 months (until my daughter started walking) walks were hell for me. I did not understand how children can sit in a carriage, not to sleep and at the same time not to cry!
I walked only during my daughter’s sleep, specially made trips to the store and on business for this time. And as soon as my daughter woke up, I rushed headlong home, for she did not want to stay awake in the wheelchair for a second, and the failure to fulfill this desire caused such a siren that I had no desire to rehabilitate her at such a young age.
Fortunately, in terms of allergies, the daughter went to me (if I had a reaction, it was not for the product, but for its quantity — for example, from 2 kg of citrus fruits I have red spots on my stomach). For almost 4 years, no cases of allergies have been observed. And this is taking into account the fact that one day the daughter secretly ate a package of ascorbine, arguing that her stomach hurt, and the doll advised her to take the medicine.
Yes, in terms of health, my influence is clearly present. Personally, I rarely get sick, but aptly. If a cold, then necessarily with loss of consciousness and pressure 60/40, for example. And the daughter – just do not jinx it, but she has not been ill for more than a year. And this is in the presence of kindergarten, travel in public transport, sea, etc.
Yes, sometimes the nose starts to leak, but on condition that emergency measures are taken, this is usually the end of it. She also had otitis and bronchitis, but it was still back in 2011.
In this regard, we have a hitch. Not only was the daughter Taurus and Bull at the same time, but she also inherited my worst qualities – stubbornness and waywardness. And exuberance from dad. Add to this the fact that she is the only and first child, and yes even a granddaughter (her cousin lives in another city).
In our company there are girls who do not ride on the hill, because you will get dirty! and do not make paschka, because well, you’re a lady !. These girls, it seems to me, since the age of one year old, they diligently walk only by the hand with their parents and have never in their lives raised a yelp at the sight of a water gun (you will wet the dress!).
There are also boys who every 5 minutes walk up to their mother and ask if they can climb a horizontal bar, dig a hole, look at beetles, etc. For some reason, I immediately have a memory of a Chekhovian man in a case, who often repeated: no matter how. The truth, as always, is somewhere nearby. Between brisk daredevils and weak-willed spirits.
For every mom, her baby is definitely the best, magical and perfect. What does not sometimes hinder dreaming: Oh, if my daughter could sit silently and put on jigsaw puzzles for at least half an hour just like her friend. . I’ll tell you a secret, my daughter is so restless that sometimes she even, sorry, goes to the pot in three calls 🙂
Only in our power to give the child magical properties. I am very pleased that my daughter, on her own initiative, tells me 10 times a day: I love you regardless of place and time. And this is not innate, this is my example and upbringing. The fact that the baby does not get sick is the result of an active lifestyle, walking, dressing for the weather and food with a treatment based on common sense.
The minimum you can do is be a magic mom for your child. Which love is boundless, and tenderness is constant. And like that, as you know, stretches to like.