Someone asks the question: What if the child is bored in the kindergarten? Someone has a disturbing tone of the question: What happens there if a child is bored in a kindergarten? or I wonder what the caregivers do if the child is bored in the kindergarten?
We noticed that in the first version the mother sees the problem in her child, but in the second and third cases the question is addressed directly to the staff. That is, the mother does not allow the thought that her baby may be bored somewhere, which means that something is wrong there. And it is alarming.
By her own
Yes, anxious. I will analyze on the example of my child. Sanya I have a classic child-bully. But the nature of her hooliganism is not aggressive towards others, but informative towards the world around her. She creates at every step: draws on the floor, sticks boxes to the table, and pencils to the notebook, paints rollers in watercolor and performs experiments, mixing detergents.
You understand that such a child is never bored. He does not need other people to have fun. As soon as the baby is left unattended, she has a lot of ideas, how to have fun with her And she does not have to think long.
In the garden
Naturally, in the garden, she is considered a bad child with disgusting behavior, although she does not offend anyone, does not swear with children, does not mess around. It is bad because it does bad things (from the adult point of view).
And imagine my surprise when my daughter announced that she was bored in the garden! At first I was taken aback, and then began to look for the cause of this boredom. Yes, actually, what to look for there. It is clear that the child is not the case.
Mode of conversation
There are in the pedagogical psychology various ways of studying the nature of children. The most effective is observation, but in my case he did not fit, who would let me in the group watch my daughter’s behavior.
It remained to use the method of conversation and ask in detail about what is happening in the garden, first the child, and then the caregivers.
The little one answered all my detailed questions, and the picture was really boring. The feeling that the children only do that they sit on the chairs in anticipation of charging, breakfast, classes, lunch, sleep.
Between the seats on the chairs they are still sitting on the carpet from which they are not allowed to go. Girls, get ready, then they walk on the street in line, holding hands, around the garden for half an hour or an hour. Thirty children just walk!
As expected, the caregiver had arguments for all the questions posed. She was very eloquent, convincing me that everything was under control. Yes, under such control that children can not move and are not engaged in anything.
Naturally, the child will be bored; his stormy energy finds no way out all day. So, my Sanya, not only that physical energy does not find a way out, so also the creative half of the brain is inactive. No inventions for days, who can handle it!
So, girls, if the child is bored in the kindergarten, ask him about what he is doing and learn a lot of interesting things. But how to deal with this educational sovdepovschiny and irresponsibility to fight – is another story.
Does your children get bored in kindergarten?