Главная 7 Preschoolers 7 How we went to kindergarten, preschoolers

How we went to kindergarten, preschoolers

I confess that I was very afraid to take my daughter to kindergarten. And what is most interesting, I was afraid not for my child, but for the other children in her group, because they could not be greeted. The reason for this was the behavior of my daughter.

She was very violent and fighting girl, because of what in our yard, many were afraid of her, and some mothers suspended their children from communicating with her. She always won back what she needed by any means, and sometimes she just came up and took it.

Passing by the garden.

Our garden is located next to the house, so there was an opportunity to observe the children in the garden from the side, and at the same time prepare our daughter morally for the upcoming changes. I was very frightened by the stories of mothers, whose children were directly pulled out of their hands, and then they stood under the windows and cried.

Every time we passed by the kindergarten, I told them that the children were there without their mother, that they were eating, sleeping and walking, and the teacher was watching them. The daughter nodded her head in assent, and after a while she asked herself to go to kindergarten for the children.

I do not know why, but first we were told not to come for breakfast, but immediately for a walk. On the first day we were lucky to get to the show, and so that the daughter did not throw up the scandal and did not spoil the holiday, I was allowed to stay with her. And even though the theater was interesting even for me, it was not completely absorbed by her, she was obviously worried, therefore she was constantly checking my presence.

And then everything went like clockwork. There were no tantrums, she ran in front of me in the kindergarten, but only the first week. Then she pereklinilo. Watching the other children who rolled up the scandals, she began to cry too. Cried, of course not for long, but I still did not want this.

Then we began to negotiate that I would bring something to her. My daughter loves flourish, so often a bun is the best gift for her. Soon, after talking, the crying passed and everything fell into place.

But at the expense of food, it was not easy. On the first day, when we went for breakfast and for a walk, she drank only tea in the garden. On the second and third day I drank tea and ate a sandwich, and then I started eating the whole batch.

I did not worry about this and did not specifically feed her in the morning, so that she would become accustomed to the regime, and not have a snack in the morning. She also asked to sleep in the kindergarten herself, freeing me from unnecessary persuasion.

I think that such a quick adaptation happened also because my daughter was fighting and nobody hurt her much. She was never shy, and if she didn’t like something, she always talked about it loudly to her teacher, so she always paid full attention to her.

Soon, she outgrown her violent behavior, and began to behave better than some children, who had been modest before. I think that the kindergarten and its rules, which are the same for all children, played a big role in this.

Did your child quickly get used to kindergarten?

О admin

x

Check Also

Baby crying in kindergarten, preschoolers

Yesterday Ksyusha told me in the evening that she would no longer go to kindergarten. ...

The child is lagging behind in development, preschoolers

There are enough people in my social circle with children. Few of the children of ...

The child has poisoned my treatment errors, preschoolers

How many do not read for the future about possible childhood diseases, anyway, at the ...

The child does not eat anything, preschoolers

Unfortunately, sometimes I come across a violation of the appetite of my daughter. It happens ...

The child does not want to eat – to force or not, preschoolers

My daughter is a little girl. To feed her is very difficult. You have to ...

The child does not want a brother, preschoolers

Hello, dear mommies. I want to raise a relevant question for me. Our daughter does ...

The child can not protect themselves, preschoolers

Parents raise a child differently, each with their own vision of resolving conflict situations involving ...

Child at sea, preschoolers

About the resort itself talked, about the sandy beach, too, left directly to the sea. ...

Child in the kitchen help or mess preschoolers

So it turns out that evenings with my daughter are spent mainly in the kitchen. ...

The child speaks a lot, preschoolers

Unfortunately, I have no siblings, but there are cousins ​​with whom we grew up together. ...

The child does not hear me, preschoolers

Recently, I began to notice my daughter: that I would not say to do, she ...

The child sleeps little, preschoolers

I love my daughters very much and I like to spend a lot of time ...

Child summer in the city, preschoolers

Summer has come. On the street you can spend a lot more time than in ...

Child is left handed, preschoolers

I have long suspected my two-year-old daughter in left-handedness: she holds a spoon and a ...

The child coughs at night may be allergic, preschoolers

The son has been coughing for a week. I, like any mother who loves her ...

The child is naughty, preschoolers

It is not the first year that I have been trying to deal with the ...

Child from a dysfunctional family, preschoolers

Although there is a theory that children choose their own parents, sometimes it seems to ...

Child and professional sports, preschoolers

Sport has now become not only an idea, but also a good source of income. ...

Child and beer, preschoolers

All of us have heard many times that alcohol is harmful, that it is destructive ...

The child is fighting, preschoolers

There are children who can play quietly and quietly in the sandbox during the whole ...

The child talks about death, preschoolers

Recently, a child often asks questions like Mom. You will not die until I become ...

The child is afraid of everything, preschoolers

Fear is normal within reasonable limits. There is nothing terrible if a child is afraid ...

The child believes in a miracle is it good, preschoolers

I met my tooth fairy after the first tooth dropped out. With each new tooth, ...

Child in the supermarket, preschoolers

I used to love supermarkets. It was pleasant to walk among the huge shelves, look ...