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How to raise a self-confident child, preschoolers

And yet, in a public place, I prefer to make children fewer remarks and not be very strict. Surrounding, when they see the mischievous person, they immediately try to give advice or say now I will take you away, who you are naughty, that’s uncle the policeman will now punish you and that’s it. The slightest manifestation of my mother’s activity is amicably supported by the crowd, which craves spectacles.

Therefore, I’d rather be as calm as possible and will not give children or people any reason to continue the disgrace, even if it is insignificant)))

Indeed, it is necessary to love and everything seems to be fine.

But I remembered one of my friend. She really loves her son, but how? Here are a few examples I have observed:
When the baby was a month old, she stopped breastfeeding him, because she was unpleasant;
She began to feed him with a mixture, and she intentionally took a pacifier for a three month old baby … Now he is 2 years old, his weight is 2 kg. more than the norm, she believes that there is nothing terrible in this, although it is already awkward for him to move and, accordingly, he is not very mobile;
During the schooling of the child to the peas, she planted him and kept, despite the fact that he screamed hysterically. And indeed there is a result of 1.5 years, he himself goes to the pot;
Putting the baby to bed, she held his hands so that he would not toss and turn, he cried until he falls asleep;

Yes, if he behaves RIGHT, she encourages him, kisses him, praises him, but before he does anything, he first looks at her and awaits approval.

Moreover, mom really loves (she thinks so) him and does not read newspapers in his presence, but will he be a confident person when he grows up with such an approach?
At two years of age, there is absolutely no independent curiosity for the world and a desire for hooligans, is such a different extreme normal?

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