Главная 7 Preschoolers 7 How to help a toddler build relationships with children, preschoolers

How to help a toddler build relationships with children, preschoolers

Up to a certain age (in our case, somewhere up to one and a half years), friendship between babies is established or not established somehow automatically, on an intuitive level: I started rolling a typewriter, I liked it – we were friends, I didn’t like it – we shouted.

And then maturing crumbs pay much more attention to relations with colleagues in the sandbox. Everyone already has a character and his own manner of behavior, his own tactics of games and peculiarities of interaction. Therefore, it seems to me, it is time for us, adults, to teach a child to contact in society.

My daughter is 2 years and 2 months old. Every day we walk in the company of kids, on the nose – going to kindergarten, staff, maintaining relationships … That is why I have been trying to pay attention to the education of social traits and skills in a little girl for a long time.

I will share my methods with you and listen with interest to your experience and opinion on this issue. All my actions conditionally divide into four subparagraphs:

1. Involvement of the child in the company.

Yes, there are nimble kids who are immediately joining any new company, but my Anyuta is not one of them. She needs to take a closer look, get used to it, and now she is also too shy.

However, all this happens faster if the mother herself begins to play with other children, seeks to rally the company by some kind of common occupation. It helps both with new children, and with friends.

It happens that the mood is spoiled by a fall, or someone has taken away a toy – the daughter falls out of the team. Then I ask her: And let’s gather the kids in the dance? – and the crumb again in the center of events.


2. Absentee generalization with children.

Absentee generalization implies mentioning of our friends of the children when we are not near them: all the children together with Anyuta will now eat and pack bed / bathe / do exercises and so on – and list all the names.

This method is effective especially when there is a break in communication with children because of illness or departure. This stirs the daughter’s desire to return to the company.

3. Explaining the behavior of other guys.

I noticed such a fact that it is worthwhile for me to calmly explain to the baby why someone acted exactly the way her attitude to what happened immediately changes. The effect is amazing!

A simple example: a friend runs up to Anyuta and tries to pull off the rezinochki from her tails (it was too beautiful!) – Anyuta is in a roar.

I explain that the girl did not want to hurt her or take rezinochki, but just wanted to see and touch, and if she does not like it, let them say do not touch me !. Works! Now in such cases, my daughter screams Do not touch! and the conflict is settled, not even having begun.

4. Playing possible situations.

The prospect of exploring a kindergarten prompted me to another unobtrusive learning – the game of communication. Most of all, Anya likes the game of acquaintance, when we learn from each role by role, how we call each other and offer friendship. Sometimes it involves dolls or little animals.

The main thing here, it seems to me, is to create a certain pattern of behavior for the crumbs. In the case of the same acquaintance, we always have the same words and the order of questions, only the answers change: – Hello, what is your name? – Answer – And you? – Answer – Let’s be friends? – Come on!

Over time, Anuta began to get acquainted with the whole world: with an aunt from an advertisement on TV, with a plasticine hippopotamus and a dog for a walk. I really hope that at the right moment in the garden, for example, she will remember and apply this our game to a real acquaintance.

О admin

x

Check Also

Poems about flowers for children, preschoolers

Recently, my daughters at school had an interesting event. Immediately after the May holidays, the ...

Stylish children, preschoolers

I think almost any parent noticed on the playground, in the store, in the kindergarten ...

The old forgotten game of doctors, preschoolers

Maybe one of you still remembers the times when we, then still girls, enthusiastically played ...

Be stronger, preschoolers

How to become strong? For an adult, there are no problems in this – it’s ...

The remedy for sore throat preschoolers

Until my eldest daughter removed the adenoids, colds and red throats were frequent guests in ...

Sports exercises for preschoolers, preschoolers

It is difficult to overestimate the importance of sports exercises in the development of children. ...

Sports entertainment for preschoolers, preschoolers

Raising a child, do not forget about his physical development – enough time should be ...

Sports competitions for preschool children, preschoolers

Unprepared for children, the playground inspires frank horror: everyone there runs somewhere, collides, falls … ...

Sports games, preschoolers

In fact, almost all mobile games develop reactions – the main thing is that there ...

Sports games for children, preschoolers

Today, many parents are passionate about early childhood development. Kids learn letters a year, and ...

Gym at home, preschoolers

I believe that before school parents should focus on the physical development of the child. ...

Sports for a child in 2 years, preschoolers

I have always paid a lot of attention to the physical development of my children, ...

Sports for children from 3 years old, preschoolers

Many parents decide that it is time to engage in sports when the child is ...

Sports in the life of a child, preschoolers

My daughter has been involved in sports for 2 years. A very small husband brought ...

The list of necessary things for the first grader, preschoolers

Next year my daughter will go to school. We have already decided on the school. ...

Do you need a specialized school, preschoolers

Recently wrote to this topic in the comments, but I feel that the topic is ...

Social networks for children are dangerous, preschoolers

Nowadays, children get acquainted with computers and the Internet very early. When I was 5-6 ...

Socialization of the modern child what it should be, preschoolers

Have you ever thought about the socialization of a child? Is it enough for him ...

Sorter entertaining toy, preschoolers

Sorter appeared not so long ago, but had already gained great popularity. This toy is ...

Rivalry between girls, preschoolers

My daughter had a girlfriend in kindergarten. Rather, children used to go to the kindergarten ...

Sunglasses for children, are they needed, preschoolers

With the onset of spring, I do not leave the house without sunglasses. I do ...

Sunscreen milk Eveline for children, preschoolers

Since we started to go to the sea in the summer, I have been buying ...

Modern cartoons for preschoolers, preschoolers

Cartoons are a controversial topic. Someone thinks that TV and computer are evil, and the ...

Modern development of children, preschoolers

Time does not stand still, everything changes – and the level and speed of development ...