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Do you need to know the child, who is his real father, preschoolers

There is nothing surprising in our life if a woman either decides on her own to have children without a husband, or the man leaves the family for free bread. The strong floor will never ask where he should go, and especially with whom he should live.

Meeting new dad

I never thought that such a thing would happen to me! Until recently, I was a loner. The physiological father refused us when I was still pregnant and went to another. But 8 months after the earring was born, I met my beloved husband, Daniel.

We loved each other very much, and it was not a bit embarrassing that I had a small child. After six months, we decided to live together. Danil and Seryozha became so close to each other that all their close ones even began to find external similarities between them.

Then I began to think seriously. If Seryozha does not know that his
the real father is not Danil, then one of these relatives and friends will tell him about it. And if this happens in adolescence? What will happen to Sergei? The most terrible thoughts came to mind.

Case from the past

I remembered one case. Before Serezha was born, I went to study in another city and rented a room with one very good woman. Her daughter Masha turned 16 years old, and for some reason it was then that a woman decided to tell her that the girl had been taken from the orphanage. The reaction was terrible.

Naturally, as a teenager, Masha in every way called, insulted her mother. She was very upset that for so many years they were hiding the truth from her.
It was a lesson to me!

I also read somewhere that it’s best for children to talk about a real dad at three years old. This is the age when they perceive this kind of information with ease. And although Danil told me that he did not need to do this, I decided.

It was at the age of three that I told Seryozha about his origin. I did not insult the physiological father. She said that in life it happens.
Dad went to live with another aunt, and I went to live with your second dad.
Showed him photos. Seryozha said: How terrible!

I felt funny, and I looked at the pictures. Really scary, as soon as I could get in touch with him, and yet she suffered, I thought. And I am very glad that I did not apply for paternity at that time. After all, now my child bears the name and patronymic of my husband.

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