How often do your children communicate with outsiders? Well, for example, with a neighbor or a saleswoman in a nearby stall, with children on the set, with friends of a father or mother …. Do you think kids need it? And from what age? It seems to me that it would be right to encourage such communication practically from the very birth.
Of course, at first you can limit your contact with grandparents. Further more. I do not see anything wrong in the fact that the child smiled, looked into his stroller, your friend. Or, why not let the neighbor child play with your baby.
Causes and their consequences
I think the more the baby of intercourse at an early age, the better it will be able to adapt in adulthood. I do not argue – at any stage of growing up a child may suddenly close in his little world. And the reasons for this may be a great many.
one. Sensitive nature. There is such a type of people, they all feel much thinner from birth. It is easier for such children to create alone, without prying eyes over their shoulders. There is nothing you can do – just such kids need to be treated with special attention.
2 Excessive parental care. That if they blow off dust particles from it, outsiders are not allowed to a gun shot. And the greenhouse flower grows, people are afraid and living in their own world. Do not reach out to such a kid …. It’s a pity.
3 Lack of parental attention. And this is the other extreme. Many justify it by employment – work, household chores. The question is: why did it have to give birth? And sitting such a lonely baby in the four walls, gradually getting used to entertain yourself on your own.
four. Constant quarrels in the family. And this, too, unfortunately, not uncommon. Mom and dad swear in the kitchen, and their unfortunate child is driven into a dark corner of the back room. Who knows, maybe the little man blames himself? It is not surprising that such children are very closed and unsociable outside the home.
five. Failure in the children’s team. Whether it is a small company in the playground or a group in kindergarten. Any little thing in appearance or behavior can be a reason for mockery. If a child cannot become his own, he will surely make a protective cocoon for himself. Break through such armor is very difficult.
I can say I was lucky, I haven’t noticed any closeness for my son – I have a very sociable and sociable child. And the daughter of such a phenomenon was temporary and was caused by the fact that she began to attend kindergarten. New atmosphere, new people …
And yet, perhaps, the closeness of the child is caused by his poor state of health. Anyway, to find out about the reason for the change of mood, you need to communicate with the baby. Sometimes it is enough just to hug a son or daughter, take a hand or kiss, and then they themselves will gladly tell you about everything that bothers them.
What do you think about this?