Who is an egoist? Quite often in everyday life we come across the word egoist. By this word we mean a person who cares only about himself. An adult egoist is not taken from nowhere; he grows out of an egoist child.
It is generally accepted that the only child will definitely grow into an egoist. With this statement, I want to argue.
I more often met selfish children in families where two siblings grow up. Two neighbor girls are growing in front of me. One – 6.5 years old, the second – 9. It would seem that same-sex children caressed by their parents, what else do they need?
But what are they doing with their parents, about the school, I generally keep quiet. A couple of months ago I was watching a picture of how Olesya, the mother of these girls, was dragging the youngest of kindergarten in her arms, barely moving her legs for fatigue. For all efforts to beg her daughter to go down, she screamed so much that passersby looked at her mother with disapproval.
A girl doesn’t really care how her mother feels, whether she has money in the house or not. If she is something impatient, then parents should perform it as a matter of urgency. Surprisingly, Dasha likes to be ill, which she does with success quite often. She drinks all the medicines with pleasure, and when the mother forgets to give pills, she reminds her about it.
She is still sleeping with her mother, on the same pillow. It happened that she herself shed the milk on the pillow, so we all together could not persuade her to lie down on another.
The eldest is also not far away. If the mother does not acquire her favorite thing, then something immediately starts to hurt.
Recently, Olesya’s husband was reduced, which naturally affected their financial situation. To fulfill all the whims of girls, Olesya went to work in Moscow for work.
Nearby lives another family with an only child. The girl is completely different. Polite, caring. Meets mom from work to help get the bags across.
So I think, is it really important that the number of children in the family, if it concerns selfishness? It turns out, on the contrary – the only children are not as egoists as they are considered.