I think all mothers want their children only good. And even more so, we want to see our children smart and successful in life. When the baby grows curious and clever, the whole family rejoices.
That’s just the effort we need to make for this a lot. Having a baby is half the battle. After all, he must be brought up and put on his feet! And, of course, this is a great work, like the one to be a good mother. And yet, what needs to be done in order for a child to grow up smart?
Argued that all pitching stupid and uneducated. They say they have no mind, because they go to the gym instead of going to the library, for example. So they attract girls not with their intellect, but with cubes on their stomachs. The same is true with athletes. But I do not believe it!
Two of my classmates, Kolya and Vlad, are excellent students and athletes. Nikolay is full of school diplomas and victories in mathematics competitions. And at the same time he was engaged in swimming, went to competitions, won, from where he brought medals. He now lives in the capital in his own apartment, having achieved everything himself.
Vladislav was engaged in martial arts and was very good at foreign languages. Now he knows them. 5. Besides that, he went to gymnastics and music. And another friend of mine, a bodybuilder, besides winning contests, translates and writes coursework for an order. How can they be called stupid?
Of course, if you give all your time to training … but, as a rule, life in sports is not obsessed. And moving away from him, many open in themselves hidden talents and opportunities. And judging by scientific research, good physical shape enhances cognitive abilities. In addition, after physical exertion, people are able to memorize many more words than before training. This was established by German scientists. My daughter is engaged in gymnastics, and I am glad about it.
All the same studies tell us that music lessons have a positive effect on memory and mental development in general. Children who go to music school or take private music lessons receive a number of advantages in school lessons.
It is very important for the human body, and even more so for children! This is very important for schoolchildren. Having no sleep, they simply cannot absorb all the material that the teacher presents to them. The loss of one hour of sleep is equal to the loss of two years of cognitive development. Every quarter of an hour is important.
It is important not just to read to children, but to read along with them. Just looking at the pictures is for the lazy. If the kid learns to read, you need to draw his attention to the words. I try to read together. Joint reading will gradually turn into early literacy and erudition.
Self-discipline is closely related to life success. No matter how hard you try to teach your child to the regime, discipline, everything is in vain if he does not want this. It is also the case with studies. After all, personal success also depends on willpower. Strong-willed students and good grades get, and they have a lot of abilities.
First of all, these are purposeful children who know what they want. Of course, they just can easily be given subjects, but discipline here plays an important role. They rarely miss classes, spend less time in front of the TV, and more after the books.
Developing self-discipline in a child is actually not difficult. It is necessary to show your organization and composure by personal example. We, for example, rarely miss classes (gymnastics training, developmental classes in DYUTs), solely due to illness. It seems to me that everything starts small.
This is also an important point. We are made up of what we eat. Child nutrition should be healthy and complete. He should not just satisfy his hunger, but use everything important and valuable to his body.
Studies suggest that caffeine and glucose can increase mental activity. This means that sweets and other sweets can be consumed while studying or preparing homework.
Some scientists believe that educational toys, games and cartoons do not bring the expected results. The bright minds of science believe that children should cognize this world actively, and not passively. The brain develops with movement, and not at the monitor (information is perceived worse). I immediately recall the phrase that it is better to see 1 time than to hear 100 times. And this has its share of truth.
My children memorize what they see more easily than what they heard. Animals are introduced live, not theoretically. Fortunately, we live in the private sector: we have cats, dogs and chickens. And the neighbors quail, pigs. We go to them on a tour.
In childhood, a small difference in age is a whole epoch. Younger children often imitate their elders, while older ones feel their priorities and considerable authority. Many parents believe that their children take only the worst from their peers. But, in fact, this effect has a positive result.
For example, in order to improve performance, a child may simply make friends with a classmate, an excellent student. Well, in the university, for example, pick up a smart roommate. A successful student can always pull up his lagging neighbor, helping him in his studies.
9. Happiness is success.
About such a philosophical concept as happiness, you can talk for a long time. In addition, each person has his own perception of this concept and state. But, above all, happiness is a state headed by a result. Happy people are successful in work (career, respectively) and love (family).
In order to make a child happy, you must first of all be a happy parent. After all, kids always learn a personal example.
10. Faith in the child.
You should always believe in the strength of your baby. First, for him it is extremely important. This is a kind of recharge and a second wind, which opens when it is very necessary. And secondly, faith can work wonders. And the parent himself, believing in his child, will eventually be proud of him, and I always believed in him, and so he could. .
And how can you add to my list? What do you think, which item is the most correct?