The child always says NO! How can mom save her nerves?
Hello everybody! I am Marina Romanenko, and today we will talk about what to do to parents when their child suddenly starts to say NO to everyone.
The situation is just trivial. He really loves a dish, and suddenly starts to say NO, even when hungry, suddenly refuses to put on his favorite clothes, refuses to go out at all – everything says: No!
So how do you get right to get past this as quickly as possible?
For many reasons. Thus, they defend their opinion, their territory, their right to be what they are. The training time for this quality comes in 2.5-3 years.
1. Be calm, it’s temporary
You need to be as calm as possible and understand that this is a temporary period, and it will pass. Before you is your favorite child. Just such a button nature pressed it, which makes him say: No, no, there is not enough to compensate for the rest of his life, and learn to be with his opinion. And this is very important.
Therefore, react calmly.
There is a time when children begin to say NO or disagree with something, and it drags out the exits to the kindergarten, to school. Accordingly, you can be late for work, and this turns into battles at the exit of the house.
What should be done? ; You need to wake up your child before. You know, many parents regret – he is so cute asleep, he got up so late yesterday,; and wake him up as usual.
As a result, as usual, everything is delayed, with all these NO, with our nerves, their nerves, aggravated, and we are all late. We break off, we can start screaming or upset, or take offense at our child.
Please wake him before. If you wake him up earlier, and you will have a supply of time, you will calmly react to his numerous NO.
He, maybe, would be happy to say YES, but can not in this period of time, can not!
The next point, which is very important to understand the parents. With NO, it’s good to fight with humor. Humor smoothes out any conflict situations, and, therefore, you just need to joke.
When your child does not want to dress, or sits on the floor and says: I’m not going anywhere! , for example, tell him:
; And do not forget that you’re not dressing today!
; How can I not dress? Dressing!
; Just do not eat this mess!
And he will start eating it.
Or, there are situations when they start to cry. You already know how the events will unfold. Warn them by telling the child: