Sex with Pregnancy
Sex during pregnancy is a particularly delicate topic. There is a very common opinion that sex during pregnancy is generally inappropriate.
Many future parents are afraid that Pregnancy sex can harm the child, provoke abortion, premature discharge of water and other complications.
In addition, there is a persistent myth that during pregnancy, the expectant mother experiences a physiological aversion to her spouse, and herself, due to external changes, loses sexual attraction. Consequently, there is no question of any sex during this period.
In fact, none of the listed fears for mother and baby, because of which future parents decide to abandon of sex during pregnancy, has no real basis.
Many future parents are afraid that frictions (progressive movements during intercourse) will serve as jerks for the baby and cause him physical harm. However, this is technically impossible: the fetus is located in the uterine cavity separated from the vagina by the cervix of the uterus.
During pregnancy the neck is a protruding part 4-5 cm long, resembling cartilage in density. However, the primary protection of crumbs from the mechanical action of any origin is the amniotic fluid, or water.
With an increase in the size of the uterus, venous outflow from the veins of the pelvis becomes difficult. As a result, venous congestion (venous blood overflow) is formed in the genitals, and this, in turn, is one of the main conditions for sexual arousal.
The idea of sexual unattractiveness of a pregnant woman is likely to belong to women themselves. The reason for such disappointing conclusions are unusually changed forms that do not fit in the model frames of modern concepts of beauty. In order to be convinced of the absurdity of this statement, it is enough to ask the opinion of men - 9 out of 10 representatives of the stronger sex state that it is during pregnancy that a beloved woman blossoms and becomes especially coveted.
If a partner refuses sex for this period, then he simply is afraid of harming his mother and baby.
The motivation for temporary or complete rejection of pregnant sex is different. And not always the initiator of the rejection of marital relations is the future mother. In 23% of the cases the refusenik is the partner.
The reason can be purely psychological. In this case, a man can not share in his mind a loved one and the child she is wearing.
In any case - whatever the reason for the refusal of sex during pregnancy, whoever initiated the refusal - one should treat this with understanding. Do not forget that during pregnancy, much changes.