Interview with actress Julia Vaishnur: “I gave birth myself, without agreements and contracts”
Career of Julia Vaishnur began in the Khabarovsk Territory Theater of Drama and Comedy, and in 2005 she made her debut in cinema, playing a role in the popular TV series Detectives.
To date, Julia is known for her roles in film and television series, including such beloved viewers as Trace, the mistress of my fate, the Gardener. The actress has time to combine her favorite work and family, and brings up her son Ilya, who turned 1 year 7 months old.
- Has your attitude and attitude to work changed after the birth of the child?
Of course, it changed dramatically. I completely revised the attitude to my mother and only now I was able to fully appreciate her contribution, to realize how much strength and love she had invested in our brother’s upbringing.
In addition, all my affairs and plans have changed. It seems that the real life began only after the birth of his son.
Now all I do is I do for him. I, of course, always hurried from work to home, to my beloved husband, but now I’m just flying, like on wings …
Very well, I stopped taking pictures from 5 months and completely devoted myself to pregnancy. She began to lead an appropriate way of life-she slept a lot, went to the pool for special classes, to school for expectant mothers, for yoga for pregnant women.
It seems to me that this is such a misfortune, because milk is irreplaceable! I want to give everything to Ilyushka to the last drop.
Now my son is 1 year 7 months old, we are still breastfeeding, and if everything goes well, I plan to feed up to 3 years.
- What do you remember most from the first year of your life with a child?
Everything is so quickly forgotten, so you need to fix everything, be sure to take pictures, shoot video, record. It happens that now someone asks: What did you do in 7 months? Yes, I do not remember right away! Although, of course, the main points are remembered for life.
For example, the first tooth we got out in 4 months! Or I still remember, I was very worried that Ilya did not want to sit down for a long time, but he sat down and immediately went.
- How do you develop the child? What is your attitude to early development?
I believe that up to 3 years of age the child should be literally stuffed with information. He should get acquainted with everything that surrounds us - to touch everything, to try and watch everything, because up to 3 years there is a powerful mental and physical development of the baby.
We are engaged in the method of Doman-Manichenko - reading from the diaper whole words. We show words, pictures, leaf through books, develop small motor skills. In 1 year Ilya was uninteresting to draw, and now we sculpt, draw, and cut figurines.
In general, we look, that the son is interested, and what is not, and we focus on what he likes. We go to the developing center, where we work in the Montessori group - there are classes for kids in the form of games, they dance, sing, make exercises.
We also visit the pool, Ilya can already swim on his own, of course, holding on to special aids, but without me - I'm just swimming alongside.
- What games do you play with the child?
Machines for him - that's all! We can just sit on the bench and discuss cars passing by for a long time, he knows them all: both cars and trucks. In the summer he very much fell in love with strollers, took away from some girl, laid out a doll and enthusiastically skated!
I bought him a toy lawnmower, decided that after all he was my boy, let him carry something more boyish. But he still changed the lawn mower to the stroller.
We are now in the process. Ilya prefers the toilet, and the pot ignores. We started to try to plant in 6-8 months.
Ilya could sit on him after much persuasion, but he was not going to do anything about it. As a result, we bought a baby seat on a large toilet, and things went much better. Now the son can already ask to go to the toilet, take me by the hand and lead me.