Often I hear from friends that a man should not know the details of wives’ pregnancy. Some representatives of the stronger sex and declare that they have completed their mission, and let the woman deal with the rest.
I remember my conversation with the grandmother of her ex-husband. She believed that a wise woman would hide from her husband that she had toxicosis (after all, men are so vulnerable!), And in no case would she take her blessed on ultrasound (after all, this is a monstrous sight, why traumatize the psyche?). I remember how I was indignant at hearing this nonsense.
Why should a man not take part in the development of his own heir? And really he doesn’t care what his beloved woman feels? Will he not be worried when she gets to the antenatal clinic in bad weather or overcrowded transport?
They say that pregnancy is not a disease. This is true, but still during this period a woman does not always feel good. At the beginning of pregnancy, she is accompanied by an agonizing toxemia, and at a later period a lot of weight makes it difficult to perform her usual work with ease.
A man needs to take on part of his wife’s duties and fulfill everything that affects the health of a woman and a future baby, as well as their safety.
I believe that the duties of the future dad are:
one. Take over the purchase of products. A pregnant woman to wear gravity to anything.
2 Clean the plumbing, wash the dishes and do everything that requires contact with chemical agents.
3 Regularly interested in the well-being of women.
four. Show attention to her. Everyone knows how to naughty hormones in a pregnant woman. She often feels ugly, clumsy and useless.
five. Accompany your favorite to the doctor. It is not necessary to go with her to the office, but to take the beloved safe and sound is his duty.
6 Present with ultrasound. Women appreciate this very much and will not accept a single excuse, even if a meeting with the president is expected at this time.
7 Do not toss your favorite job: Do not throw socks, do not leave crumbs on the table and empty cigarette packs after breakfast.
eight. Indulge your favorite delicious food. This does not mean cooking borscht (although it does not hurt). Everyone can fry eggs.
9. To fulfill the whims of a pregnant woman.
ten. Don’t get mad at her pregnant hormones 🙂