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Why guess the sex of the unborn child, pregnancy and childbirth

You were told on the ultrasound sex of the child? It is wonderful! Purely from a practical point of view. Then you can prepare in advance, buy everything. But I can’t understand the reckless looping on the field (in the sense of gender) of a child.

Methods for determining the sex of the child

Not to say that I am all such clever and did not recognize the sex of the child by the tables and tests. But the attitude to the result was the same as to passing the test for what kind of fantasy hero you are. I just wanted to cheer myself up, fantasize over who could be born and how we would live with him.

Yes, in general, and the methods themselves sometimes touched. For example, it was recommended to remember in which side your head lay at conception: to the north – to the boy, to the south – to the girl. That is, it is assumed that spermatozoa with Y-chromosomes have some special northern magnetism, and with X chromosomes – southern. Excuse me, but if everything happened standing or sitting, how then should poor spermatozoids decide, who should be the first?

Or, if it was cold or sunny, then surely wait for the boy, and if it is hot and rainy, then a girl. It is even scary to think about whom you can conceive in a fresh warm summer night! Certainly not a girl. And not a boy …

And the most popular method is to upgrade blood. Popular, probably, because its nonsense is not so visible – it is hidden by all sorts of scientific evidence and clever wording. The main idea – whose blood is fresh, the child will be of that sex. To determine the developed table, according to which the blood is updated every four years. If there was blood loss, that counts too.

But wait! First, it is difficult to trace the relationship of a set of chromosomes in the sperm with circulating blood in the body. Especially in the mother’s body. Secondly, in any school textbook on anatomy, approved by the Ministry of Education, it is said that the erythrocyte (that red blood cell) lives no more than 180 days. And he doesn’t seem to care about being born and dying in a female or male body.

And thirdly, if the theory were true, then humanity in general could not reproduce in the way that exists now, since only girls would be born everywhere. Because as a normal sexually mature woman, based on this theory, the blood is updated every month.

So I think, and it is not conscientious for the authors of such theories to speculate on the feelings of pregnant women? Well, if someone believed – did not believe, and I forgot. And there are those who sincerely trust such nonsense.


How to perceive information?

Once on the forum, I read the tearful post of a single lady, who, according to all popular signs, was a boy, and an ultrasound scan showed a girl. The lady roared over this life injustice for a week, until she humbled herself. True, in the end she wrote that now she did not understand how she would live with her son. But you can only imagine what the child endured inside the mother for this week.

I assured myself that it does not matter to me who is born, the main thing is that this is our child. But secretly hoped that there would be a boy. I really wanted our dad, the future coach, to be from whom to bring up the champion. I wanted to give him such happiness. In general, I was then just a dad and lived. It can be seen, therefore, the daughter was born outwardly – a complete copy of it.

When I found out that there would be a girl, she only sighed at the expense of dreams and reassured herself that you could also make a champion out of a girl. And then thoughts flowed in the wake of life with my daughter. And now, when we live without our dad, I thank Fate every day for giving birth to a girl.

By the way, towards the end of the pregnancy, thoughts about the field became smaller. In the last days, when you are not able to serve yourself because of the abdomen, it’s all the same who is born there. The main thing is to be born soon!

Now I dream of the second, but I still can not understand why guess the sex of the unborn child?

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