I remember, I had a delay, for about 10 days. I then met Zhenka, he did not become my husband, but he left good memories of himself. He responded to my delay as follows: You know, I would be very happy if you were pregnant. These words struck me, because I had never thought about it seriously before.
Monthly soon began, but I had a great desire to have a baby. After some time we started living with this guy together. But since we rented an apartment, we decided to think about the wedding and the children a little later. I began to take birth control pills, but the desire to get pregnant did not leave me.
I understood that until my own apartment appears, it will take 2-3 years, and I wanted to now. At first, I began to forget to drink pills, while every month I waited for a miracle to happen. Nothing happened.
Then I stopped drinking them altogether. I warned the guy, of course, saying that I had a headache from them, etc. We began to protect themselves interrupted. There were a lot of suspicious moments. I waited.
With every delay of 1 or 2 days, I tried to catch some changes in myself, addictions to any food, nausea and other signs of pregnancy. And she constantly noticed something, but then, unfortunately, her period began.
I remember constantly looking on the Internet – whether you can be pregnant with menstruation or get pregnant during them. I found some wonderful stories that you can. I spent the whole year in unrealizable hope, but nothing happened.
Now, as an experienced woman, I can draw conclusions about the likelihood of pregnancy in some delicate cases.
You can get pregnant only a few days in the month. Most often this is the middle. The exception is women with irregular menstruation, and therefore irregular ovulation. If the work of their reproductive system is unstable, then the pregnancy can occur when she wants, or not at all.
While taking birth control pills, the probability of pregnancy is 0.001%. Somewhere like that. Even if you missed a couple of pills.
Get pregnant during your period – 0.02%. To become pregnant during interrupted sexual intercourse, provided that the man does not want the child – 0.1%.
In general, I want to say that the probability of pregnancy in all such cases is negligible. And the fact that you can get pregnant during menstruation or the fact that the sperm can crawl from your knee to the fallopian tube – these are all myths.
How did I do
I got pregnant only when we stopped protecting ourselves at all. Since we were pregnant every day, I am sure that this happened exactly in ovulation. Because precedents were before, but far from the middle of the cycle.
Of course, sometimes you want to believe in a miracle, especially when you strongly desire something. I know a lot of women who want to get pregnant very much, and their men do not want that. And I often see the disappointed faces of these women when they have another menstruation.
Although, I remembered one amazing story. My friend got pregnant, as she says, at the beginning or at the end of her period, which, in fact, cannot be. But then, all the same, it became clear why this happened. It turns out she had some kind of disorder, I don’t remember what it was called, but the ovaries secreted too many eggs and frequent ovulations occurred.
The doctor said that with such a diagnosis, the child must be given birth necessarily and as quickly as possible, otherwise in a few years the ovaries will spend their supply of eggs and become passive.