The wedding is over, and family life is ahead. They have everything: difficulties and moments of happiness. The first time after the wedding, my husband and I just enjoyed life, spent a lot of time together, went on a honeymoon trip.
So a year passed, then two … Friends began to get children, but we didn’t even think about the child until we thought why others have, and we don’t? We have not been protected since the day of the wedding, why is there still no pregnancy? Probably not the time, we decided, and calmed down.
Another six months passed, and my younger sister reported that she was pregnant. All this was hour X. We ought to think about the children. For the beginning I go to the gynecologist, I pass all the tests. The result is OK, they send the husband to take tests, the results are also good. And there is no pregnancy … The doctor doesn’t say anything, I’m going through the ultrasound again, I’m taking tests.
The only thing that bothers me is frequent colds, the ovaries are constantly inflamed. But doctors do not consider this a serious obstacle to pregnancy. Prescribe a course of antibiotics and all.
Why does not come pregnancy.
This question is firmly in the head. Doctors shrug their shoulders, responding that both of us are healthy. How to be? Sent to pass tests for compatibility and genetics. The result is good again, everything is normal. But there is no pregnancy …
Mom always drags me to the healers, I do not believe them, they just want to earn money. Maybe there used to be really helping grandmothers, but now some are charlatans all around …
I already have a panic, we have been married for almost four years, but the baby is not. I’m starting to look at young moms with envy, I’m losing my mind. What to do, where to go? When I am already in a state close to panic, doctors offer to try to artificially conceive a child.
Artificial conception or waiting for a miracle?
IVF is too expensive, they offer a simpler method – insemination. We agree to try, just do not want to wait for a miracle. We collect money, we plan to make the procedure on vacation.
Mom does not leave attempts to bring me to the healers. He finds one more, agree to go after long persuasion and the promise of my mother that this is the last grandmother where she leads me. We went three times, I had a terribly sick massage. In parting, she told me to come after the next critical days.
And now comes the vacation, it’s time to prepare for insemination. Waiting for menstruation to go to take hormones. Delay…. I am upset that I have caught a cold again and will have to postpone the procedure. I don’t go to the doctor; The stomach hurts a lot, but they are not there.
So two weeks have passed, I am going to the doctor. Mom advises to make a test, but I do not believe in miracles. I think that again I will have to treat a cold … And yet, before going to the doctor, I do a test … And on it are two strips. I just burst into tears …
About how I will communicate this news to my husband, I dreamed almost from the beginning of attempts to get pregnant. But everything turned out completely wrong … He called at that moment when I, swallowing tears, looked at the cherished two stripes. And of course, I could not resist saying. The silence on the phone, the husband was shocked and his first question was: Does the test not lie? Do not lie.