Hooray! My friend Lisa became a mother for the second time. And this, despite congenital obstruction of the fallopian tubes.
First marriage lump
The main problems began when Lisa got married. The first two years everything was great, and then kids began to appear at our friends-acquaintances. And Lisa somehow faded. Nursing with another girlfriend’s boot, Lisa told me that she constantly runs to see doctors, but her predictions are disappointing: obstruction of the fallopian tubes.
In the end, Lisa decided on the operation, after which one tube became passable, but the long-awaited pregnancy did not occur.
I can’t say that my husband strongly supported Lizina’s undertakings, it seemed to me that he lived well and so, without a crowd of screaming offspring. He was even annoyed by Lizino’s desire to become a mother at any cost! As a result, they became very distant and divorced a year later.
Lisa was depressed. With her beauty and mind, the girl felt inferior, so much so that even her husband ran away from her. Our persuasions, and the stories that she and the former were just different people, didn’t act on Lisa … Until that time, until she met Sasha.
You will be a mom! I promise!
Sasha, unlike the first Lysing husband, was extremely calm and even, in my opinion, slightly boring. Lisa told Sasha about her illness before marriage. He calmly listened and replied: You will be a mom, I promise!
The first thing Sasha did was learning all about the IVF method. He calmly agreed to all the manipulations with his body, passed the tests, and also supported Lisa during painful procedures … After a while Lisa was placed on an embryo. Lisa and Sasha were in seventh heaven! Alas, it was short. At week 11 there was a miscarriage …
A new course of treatment followed, Lisa learned more and more details about her body. There were two more pregnancies, which, unfortunately, also ended in failure. Lisa was thin and tired, she was so fixated that she could not communicate with those who already knew the joy of motherhood. Including with me.
Mom of two children
We have not seen for more than a year, and then Lisa called me herself and offered to meet … She came to the meeting together with one-year-old baby Maksimka. I could not believe my eyes. How? After all, a little more than a year has passed since our last meeting. To which Lisa admitted that exactly six months ago, thanks to Sasha’s persuasion, she quit trying to become pregnant. But at the same time, Lizin’s husband did not abandon the idea of becoming a parent at all …
It was Sasha who first started talking about adoption, it was he who then ran and collected the documents, and it was he who saw Maxim, who looked so similar in appearance to Lisa.
Today Maxim is already four years old and his sister recently appeared. Insisted on this is the husband of Lisa.
For this wonderful family, the obstruction of the fallopian tubes and the subsequent infertility did not become a sentence. They are wonderful parents, wise and loving, and they are thinking of expanding their family by at least one more little man!