Now I live in anticipation of a miracle. My child, for another 2 months, will push, dance and roll in his bosom. But since I already belong to the category of elderly pervorodok, my pregnancy is complicated by some factors. I want to talk about such features of late pregnancy today.
Doctors believe that women over 35 years old are late in the primordia. My version. But they read the age on the passport, and in fact there is also a biological component.
I lived in an unfavorable ecological zone for a very long time, for which I am paying now. And if you add nutrition, heredity and acquired diseases, then you can’t call my pregnancy easy.
I could not have children for a long time. Not to say that I had infertility diagnosis, not. But with the offspring did not work. I dreamed of children from the age of 20. But fate was not favorable.
How many tears did my pillow see, how many I ate the ashes with wishes for the New Year, how much I sawed the infusions at the wise grandmothers)))
Apparently, with my first husband I had a psychological incompatibility – a term coined to write off infertility for a bad emotional situation in a family. It is in such an unhealthy atmosphere I lived 10 years.
But having married for the second time, apparently, I cut the karma of failures and the stork flew over our house.
In the doctor’s office
When I learned that I was pregnant, I went to the clinic to become registered. I didn’t choose special clinics because I didn’t want a special attitude to myself. I do not like concentration on my person. I wanted to feel the beauty of the state. analyzes and queues in the offices.
But I did not manage to go through all these circles of happiness, because at the 8th week I had the first threat of miscarriage. My husband transferred me to a private examination, where I was immediately put on a hospital.
Why? How? Only not with me! – I cried, dropping into the compartment to save.
Subsequently, as the doctor explained to me, the risk of miscarriages in late mothers takes the second step after anemia. This period increases the risk of chromosomal fetal abnormalities.
Simply put, women who are 35-45 years old are at great risk of having a child with Down syndrome. But in the early stages it is diagnosed today, so the husband insisted on my full examination.
Blood pressure, edema, and rapid heartbeat were added to the entire bouquet of expectations. This is not a disease of age., just pregnancy can proceed in different ways. There are reasons for this ecology, as I have already said, women’s diseases, pollution of the body.
But all this is so insignificant in comparison with those feelings that I experience. I have dreamed of a child for so many years that I can’t wait to hold him close to my chest.
And let me still 2 months Do not sleep, lie down and suffer from heartburn, but the feeling of future motherhood covers all the difficulties that I face during pregnancy.
Do not deny yourself happiness!
Late pregnancy – on the one hand, great happiness for those who are desperate and a huge risk for female physiology. After all, the body is experiencing a very serious hormonal failure, which not all future mothers can withstand.
Someone is confronted with pathologies, someone risks their health by taking risks for the sake of the unborn child, and someone gives birth to twins. Indeed, namely, the late parents the highest rate of multiple pregnancy. So do not despair if you are over 35. This is not the right to deny yourself the joy of becoming the happiest mom in the world!
And what difficulties did you encounter during pregnancy?