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Late maternity: decide or not to risk, pregnancy and childbirth

Every woman sooner or later comes to the conclusion that it is time to have a child. All this time comes in different ways. Someone maternal instinct is included from a young age, and someone needs to grow up, mature, understand that in addition to work, beloved man, entertainment, etc. etc. there is something more important in life, without which a woman cannot fully feel herself a woman – one who gives life and continues life on earth. Yes, yes, no matter how lofty it may sound, but if it were not for us girls, life on our planet would have dried up long ago). In this sense, even pride takes over the weak but beautiful half of humanity.

At what age is it better to give birth?

It seems to me that you begin to approach the issue of childbirth most consciously from the age of 25, and before that many of us still have what is called wind in the head. Often at this age, we ourselves are still the children of our parents and are not quite ready to take responsibility for our own child. Although, of course, everyone has everything individually and we will not cut them all under the same comb.

However, most women acquire their first child by age 30. This is considered normal. If the waiting period of the baby is delayed, then the mother from the category of the young goes into the category of old-born. And every year it becomes in this sense more and more old, which plunges some women into real horror. God, I am already 31 (32 …….), and I still do not have a child! A little bit more and it will be late to give birth !.

This condition is actively stirred up by good doctors, who unanimously say: Dear, you are already under 40. If you decide on a child, you will have serious problems. The organism is not the same. It turns out that if you didn’t meet the right time and didn’t give birth when it was normal, now it’s too late to give birth, and even if you decide to do it, then the problems are provided to you.

I think this is fundamentally wrong. I mean that society imposes a certain stereotype of behavior: and we all must adapt to it. We all know that in the West this issue is much easier. There, moms are also made in adulthood, and no one looks at these women as if they were crazy.

In the end, giving birth to a child is a responsible matter, if you understand that you first need to secure a decent material rear, so that later, sitting on maternity leave, do not need anything and not hang around the neck of relatives – it is quite natural that you will be engaged career. And building a good career often turns out just the same years to 32-35.

Here it is already possible to think about the child. As for the health and deterioration of the body, then everything is strictly individual. If you look after yourself, then there should be no particular problems. I know several mummies who decided on their first child not even after 30, but after 40. At the same time, they all have wonderful babies, completely healthy and in no way inferior to those born to their young mothers.

But, but moms themselves take their motherhood much more responsibly, and invest their whole soul in the kids. They are ready to deal with them for as long as necessary, do not try to throw them off on grandparents, are closely monitoring their health. And all because the children are long-awaited for them and they approached their desire to have them quite consciously. Therefore, we can say that maternity in adulthood has indisputable advantages.

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