Главная 7 Pregnancy and childbirth 7 It’s not scary to give birth. The main psychological attitude, pregnancy and childbirth.

It’s not scary to give birth. The main psychological attitude, pregnancy and childbirth.

I watched in horror as the sheets disappeared on the calendar. No, I really wanted a child. Why, only I was wildly afraid to give birth. The pain was associated with a thousand sticking needles. And with this it was necessary to do something!

With this attitude, by the time of birth, I would probably have turned gray. But, since I am a responsible person, I could not let the important issue of childbirth take place. It was necessary to decide how to be. And that’s what I thought – I have to give birth one way or another, that is, I cannot influence the situation in any way, it only remains to change my attitude towards her!

Began to study what the fight. And I learned that each time they become stronger, the pain increases. But there is a limit – it is the birth of a child. What is birth? This is a long-awaited meeting! I finally see my baby, maybe he will even smile at me! Thus, the harder the fight, the less time before the meeting! And this is exactly what I need!

The fight can not last forever. It has a beginning and an end. So, you need to distract yourself with something to make this time pass faster. It is clear that you will not be watching the movie during wild pain. And what will you be? Right, scream / whine / moan. Why not make this moan as productive as possible?

Take some sound, well, at least Oh, and during the fight pull it as long as possible. Just imagine how many hares you will kill:

– here you and the right deep abdominal breathing,
– blood oxygenation, which is very useful for the child,
– your thoughts are directed not at pain, but at how to stretch the sound as long as possible,
– the fight goes unnoticed.

Sounds choose to your taste.

I have not met a single woman in labor who would not speak about pain. Moreover, recovery after cesarean section is also not the easiest. Warned – armed! Need to prepare yourself. In the end, we are carrying a child for 9 months, it remains to be patient for several hours and the happiest moments in your life will come. It is worth enduring for this! And in the most extreme case, there is anesthesia.


True, think about how women give birth in any African tribes, there are no painkillers at all? They rely only on nature and they are good at it! Maybe they just do not exaggerate the complexity of the process?

Contractions and pain – these are my two points with which I, in general, coped. So you think in advance about what bothers you the most, come up with images that can be used to overcome fear. Well, think about whether his eyes are big.

О admin

x

Check Also

Births abroad, pregnancy and childbirth

At the end of September of this year, I went to visit relatives in Austria. ...

Births in the USA

Births abroad last 10 years are rapidly gaining popularity. Someone is going to give birth ...

Childbirth without fear, pregnancy and childbirth

I always dreamed of not feeling fear during childbirth. Always very diligently looking for information ...

Childbirth without pain, pregnancy and childbirth

Childbirth without pain. It would seem that this is impossible if you do not conduct ...

Childbirth – a game of roulette, pregnancy and childbirth

I was completely normal, without much difficulty, pregnancy. Childbirth was soft and fast. But all ...

Labor contractions, pregnancy and childbirth

Ever since the evening of March 24, I began to smack my stomach, giving me ...

Maternity or birth-restrictive institution, pregnancy and childbirth

Recently, the term obstetric institution caught my eye, and a caustic sarcastic smile spread across ...

Labor, pregnancy and childbirth

My labor activity began traditionally – at about 9 pm on December 13, 2014, my ...

To give birth to a child in 40 years, kids

I got pregnant when I was 40. So, at full summer, everything instantly changed. Surprise? ...

Give birth because of maternal capital, babies

It is said that children are an inexhaustible source of family happiness. Only in recent ...

Maternity hospital with joint stay with or without a child, pregnancy and childbirth

I have long chosen a place where I will give birth. Heart prompted to choose ...

Repair during pregnancy, pregnancy and childbirth

As a rule, this topic affects everyone who is waiting for a child. Even if ...

Reaction of friends and acquaintances to joint labor, pregnancy and childbirth

We decided not to give birth together immediately. Before that, we had several months to ...

Stretch marks are an unpleasant consequence of pregnancy, pregnancy and childbirth

When I was pregnant, I, for some reason, did not think that I would have ...

The story of the conception of our daughter, pregnancy and childbirth

New Year. The apartment was filled with the romantic mood of two people loving each ...

Early pregnancy how to overcome your fear and misunderstanding of loved ones, pregnancy and childbirth

With my husband, we did not develop a relationship. I went to my parents to ...

Different Rh factor, pregnancy and childbirth

3 pregnancies – 4 children. And each time there was a threat because of a ...

Difference between first and second pregnancies, pregnancy and childbirth

As an energetic person, constantly developing, traveling a lot, taking a great interest in fashion ...

Fasting days during pregnancy, pregnancy and childbirth

My first pregnancy was almost perfect – only a little disturbed toxicosis in the first ...

Fasting days for pregnant women, pregnancy and childbirth

Being pregnant, I gained weight too quickly. When in the sixth month the increase exceeded ...

Fasting days during pregnancy, pregnancy and childbirth

Most of all during my recent pregnancy I was afraid to get better. For me ...

Mother talk with teenage daughter about early pregnancy, pregnancy and childbirth

Young mommies. Yesterday’s schoolgirls themselves are almost still children. Puzzled, confused, yearning for freedom from ...

Fetal development in the 2nd trimester, pregnancy and childbirth

Today I will continue yesterday’s topic and talk about the development of the baby in ...

Fetal development in the 3rd trimester, pregnancy and childbirth

During this period, the organs of intuition develop: the baby learns to distinguish smells and ...