The mystery of having a baby is now universally available. Today it is fashionable to give birth with a husband, it is fashionable to record the birth of a child on a video camera, and then to watch with relatives and wait in the film for the appearance of a child’s head, it is fashionable to post this video for free viewing on the Internet.
Where did the mystery of the birth of a child go? And how can one show such a universal access if the child’s aura is not yet strong enough to resist the evil eye?
My friend gave birth with her husband, citing the fact that it would be easier for her, and let her see how she would suffer for the sake of the baby so that she would feel sorry for her at night and get up. The newly appeared father kept to the end, tightly holding her hand and his heart. When the child was born, he was given a scissors and asked to cut the umbilical cord. It was here that the masculine, unprepared by nature, psyche could not stand – he collapsed into a swoon. While the doctor cleared the airways of the newborn, dad was pumped out with ammonia.
What’s next? No man admits to you that he did not want to look at all this (there are, of course, exceptions, but very few of them). Many after such a shock can become impotent! Many of them will remember about what happened in the ancestral chamber during their lovemaking classes for a few more years.
My personal opinion is that a man, if he is not a doctor, should not be in the ward when his woman gives birth. They are psychologically very weak in this matter, why give them shock and stress?
If you will need a person next to it to be a little easier, then you always have a choice: your mother, husband’s mother, sister, aunt, best friend, that is, a female female (it is desirable that she already gave birth to shock and she).
The psychological state of equilibrium in a family between two more recently completely strangers is already too fragile to yield to another test. Having a child is joy, not shock, stress, or impotence of a beloved spouse. Think whether it is important for you to tighten it to the tribal chamber?
Take care of your men and balance in your family!