Before the pregnancy, my husband and I lived for five years. And they spent all their time off work actively. We collected new experiences, constantly went somewhere and attended various events.
Everything changed when I got pregnant. I did not have the threat of a breakdown, but I was very afraid that my activity would not harm the child. I took great care of myself and the new life that grew inside me.
At this time, my husband had to hard. He had no reason not to go with friends to the pool, to football, or to cancel the gym trip. But he felt like a traitor to me if he had fun, and I stayed at home.
This went on for the first weeks, but this situation did not suit us. We sat down and made a list of how the future mother could be entertained.
Having fun with the whole family
In the first place – joint walks in nature. We had the opportunity to make frequent forays into the pine forest. During pregnancy, I just raved about kebabs, and we made them very often. Such walks were loved by me, my husband, and our friends.
We also went to museums. This option is great for bad weather. Tickets are cheap, and the whole family joins the beautiful. With some museums (local lore) create groups for expectant mothers. They are taught to prepare a dowry for the baby, to sing old lullabies, they are introduced to traditions.
You can count for joint entertainment and lessons in school for pregnant women. They will be useful for young dads. Then, as compensation for moral damage, I had to take my husband to the pizzeria. I really loved such trips.
We visited the dolphinarium. There I had a dream to swim with dolphins, but its embodiment had to be postponed. We all got a lot of fun. In memory, my husband bought me a disk with dolphin songs, so that the baby in her tummy would listen and develop.
We were assured that after birth, the child will calm down after hearing this music. But the dolphin songs didn’t have a calming effect on our daughter. Probably, they only developed.
Several times we went to the theater. For me it was a reason to dress up and feel like a cultured lady. But when going to the movies, I was afraid that the baby would not be frightened by a loud sound.
Do not forget about uncultured entertainment program. If a pregnant woman has no contraindications, she can have sex. When there are no health problems, you should enjoy intimacy. Give yourself and loved ones pleasant moments.
Because of the hormonal changes in the body, the sensations become brighter. Yes, and my husband is experiencing new experiences. It is no secret that some men begin to cheat on their wives during pregnancy. You should not push your husband to such an act by refusing intimacy.
Shopping, walks in the park, chatting with friends, moderate exercise, all this makes the period of waiting for the baby bright and interesting. Use your free time, gain impressions, because after the birth of a baby you will have completely different concerns.