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About stretch marks, tenderness and sex, pregnancy and childbirth

Your baby is growing up, and even if he is still inside you, but every day you feel more acutely that this is an independent person and you are worried about his health and well-being. Such anxieties are the normal state of a future mother, because gradually the most powerful of instincts, the motherly one, begins to speak in you.

But precisely because of such an obsession with ourselves and the unborn child, we sometimes move away from our husbands. Of course, he fulfilled his mission and can be free. But seriously speaking, it is during this period that you need to strengthen your relationship, because the birth of a child often checks their strength.

The future father, as well as you, cherishes the baby and is afraid of harming him – but if a woman’s maternal instinct often interrupts the desire for intimacy, then for a man it becomes stronger. This contributes to the realization that the woman carries his child. And the forms of the future mother are becoming more and more appetizing every month! So how to be?

The answer to the question is simple: you do not need to be detached, let a man take part in everything that concerns a baby – go to class future moms, to the pool, more often let dad have the opportunity to stroke his tummy and talk with the baby. At such moments a feeling of tenderness and responsibility for your life and for the life of a little man is born in a man’s soul.

Let your intimate relationships come to a new level – the level of caring for each other, guessing desires and all-consuming tenderness. If there are no medical contraindications, then sex during pregnancy will not bring harm, it will not allow to move away from each other.

In general, pregnancy often becomes a time when relationships become even more meaningful and sensual – but only if a woman allows a man to be close to her. It is said that men value such trust – let the future dad make you light massage lumbar spine, which begins to disturb in the second trimester of pregnancy, let fresh juice instead of coffee brings to bed, and, of course, helps prepare you for the mystery of birth.

Doctors advise to resort to the pair preparation, which serves as prevention of stretch marks and tears. Women are often concerned about the appearance of stretch marks on the chest and abdomen. But they are fraught with not only cosmetic problems – this is also a signal of insufficient production of collagen and elastin, which can lead to perineal tears during childbirth. To avoid this, you need to conduct daily massage of the chest, abdomen, thighs and perineum with the use of olive oil.

It is best to start in the second trimester, and since the stomach can interfere with doing it correctly – do not hesitate to involve your husband in the procedure. Such massage close You, strengthen confidence, give tenderness and a feeling of care – besides massage can be considered as an erotic game or even a prelude to sex. Before you decide on a massage against stretch marks, be sure to consult with the gynecologist for contraindications, if they are not there, then nothing will prevent you from loving each other even more tender!

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