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Abortion: to give birth or not to give birth, pregnancy and childbirth

For some, this is a terrible word, for someone a mere trifle. Such a thought would not even come to someone’s head, but someone would go on doing it without thinking twice. Millions and billions of opinions from minus infinity to plus infinity. So, abortion. And my personal opinion.

The photo on the topic will be one and fairly light, because if you enter the search word into Yandex, you get such pictures that at least grab hold of the validol. Yes, for me, abortion is a scary word. A word that I do not want to hear, see, read, and pronounce. I am not a hypocrite, not a nun, not a church minister and many more different ones, but for me an abortion is terrible. In itself is terrible. Yes, for me a fetus in a few days is already a man.

I understand and perfectly know that there are women who are not suitable contraceptives. I have a friend – however safe it is, it flies at an enviable frequency, there are already more than a dozen abortions. The only reliable way is to sleep in different rooms. Here is such an organism. I’m afraid even to think about what I would do in her place.

Another sharp line is violence. When pregnancy occurs as a result of rape. The child is not to blame, but what is it like for a mother to realize that the father of her child is her abuser. What it will be for a child to find out that he is the son of a rapist, and yet the secret will sooner or later become apparent. Let not five, but twenty-five years – there is no difference.

But when an abortion is done in order not to spoil a career or to not change plans for life, for me it is crazy, to say the least. I do not want to judge anyone, but I hope that I will never have to take this terrible step in my life.
What do you think about abortion?

Here we should rather think about how to treat the State, which, not realizing that situations can be different, believes that abortion should be prohibited altogether.
I understand when an abortion is done if the life of the mother is in danger. For example, the mother now, as a psychologist, is working with a woman who recently nearly died – a Tajik killed women with armature in the Sokol metro area. She managed to turn around – the blow fell on the temple. She was saved because she started screaming, people came running … A man is now sitting in a pre-inheritance isolation ward.

And this woman is pregnant, only recently learned. And the other day we learned that the effects of a blow to the temple are taking place – she began to have nausea, headaches, and sand appeared in her eyes. They did a brain scan – she has a hematome, huge. If not removed, the woman will begin to die. Urgently need a surgery to remove. And with similar types of operations for life it is necessary to have an abortion!
And what to do? Here’s what to do in such cases? To choose, either an unhealthy child will be born, and you yourself will die, or you will have an urgent operation for vital indications, and you will have to make a new child.

That is, there are a lot of situations when abortion is necessary. And the State, you see, does not like it. Well then, pardon miles, my good ones, and what have YOU done to ensure that our women want to give birth? Why do we have Tajiks with fittings go? Why do some women live in poverty? Why are so many drug addicts divorced that you don’t want to give birth to them, and even the woman herself is a drug addict, and so it’s better not to give birth …

And so on and so forth. The question gives rise to a new question, and you will not do an abortion to questions, that is the point.

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