Pogodki: children with a small age difference; fears, mistakes, lifhakas
My name is Ann. Today I want to talk with you about how to cope with 2 small children, who have a very small age difference.
Anya Yeliseyeva is the mother of two charming girls, Katrushi and Marousi. Anya tells how to cope with two little children, who have a small age difference, to combine work and life. We share with you the most useful lifhakas:
I want to tell you about my story.
Between my girls the difference is a year and 10 months. When Marusya was a year old, and I just stopped breastfeeding, went back to work, my husband and I started repairs in our apartment, and then on ultrasound it was discovered that we would have another baby.
I just went to work, and even speech at all could not be that I can again go away for a long time to the decree. Therefore, I already thought in advance of this logistics, how can I combine work and two young children.
I immediately had a few basic fears:
- The first fear, and the main one, is that I will not be able to devote the same amount of time to my beloved baby, my Marousa, and that I will not be missed just as much as Marusya did for my newborn baby.
- My second fear was that Marousia would be very jealous, and her world would collapse because she was such a mummy, a very tame girl. And I was very worried that there would be some kind of aggression, stress, that when they grow up, there will be some fights. I read a lot about it (We also read:sibling rivalry).
- My next fear was that how I could raise two small children without taking a break from production.