My last topic about emotional hunger caused a great resonance among readers of Alimero. Of course, some sharp comments were very unpleasant for me to read.
But in combination with the support of other girls, I think they will have their effect. Oh, I’m afraid even to promise, better brag about the real results!
But I thought about the question. Judging by the comments, it is worth losing weight – and here it is, happiness, immediately, like a firebird, will be in my hands. But not everything is so simple. I know beautiful slender girls, while unhappy.
And I also know fat girls who have a family, children and are happy to cook various goodies, without denying themselves the pleasure of trying them. Today I will tell one of them, call her Lika.
When I got a job as a translator, Lika was the only one of the youth. She is only a couple of years older than me, and then looked at all fifty. I was then in a different weight category and was surprised: How can a woman with such a weight of about 120 kg feel quite comfortable, smile, joke?
I don’t need diets
We didn’t manage our friendship with Lika, as she was always sharp on the tongue, and I try not to let such people into my life. Nevertheless, she taught me computer skills, and along the way we communicated on other, non-production issues.
And you know what’s curious? If other colleagues (women already aged) loved to discuss any new diet, fasting day or their own trip to fitness, Lika did not participate in these topics at all. She seemed uninteresting to her.
And to the questions of colleagues: Face, let me print out a Japanese diet for you too? and like Lika with a constant smile confidently answered: Why, I am so beautiful. She stopped pestering her.
I still remember one case. A young unmarried employee, Valentin, came to our department. And soon, she and Lika were already applying to the registry office. And about their relationship did not have the slightest clue even the employee, who with Lika sat in the same room.
Nadezhda Ivanovna directly cried then: Linda, well, why did not the roller choose you, why? After all, you are both prettier than Leakey, and you have a kind, sympathetic character. I was not offended then, because I never liked guys under 2 meters tall.
Love or flat
But the continuation of my colleague’s tirade made me think and even gave rise to complexes: Just Lika had a three-room apartment in the center of the capital. So Valentine chose this ulcer. Linda, how can he not see how you are better?
I can note Lika’s remarkable ability not to react to gossip and rumors about her. When she became pregnant, half the department said something harsh: That was it, she hurried on purpose to catch Valik.
My colleague answered all these talkings with cold calmness. In due course she gave birth to a daughter and went on maternity leave. Shortly before leaving, we had a conversation with her, from which I remember one phrase: Linda, remember how you treat yourself and will treat you. Do you ever remember the time when I moaned about my weight? And here is the result! (Lika stroked her belly and smiled her trademark smile).
What do you think about Lika?