Sooner or later, any woman thinks about weaning her child. This should be done gradually, loving the baby and your body.
My Danya was almost a refuseer. Even in the hospital, he was hungry for three days, his chest did not want to take. Further special love for her, too, did not feel.
After establishing this process, he didn’t like to love sisyu more. She was just like food. Closer to the year he began to eat her less and less, apparently he liked the food more.
I did not rape him with breast and decided to pull up to a year, and there we shall leave. That’s what I want to talk about.
Judging by my son, it could have been done abruptly at all, he would have noticed nothing. But still there is a psychological factor of addiction and my body. It was necessary to do everything gradually.
At first I prepared for excommunication. Breast ceased to be an assistant to sleep a child, he began to quietly go to bed with dad or grandmother. We did not have other factors, such as asking for a breast at any moment, therefore we did not have to wean.
Then I prepared morally. During pregnancy, I planned to feed for at least two years and did not anticipate such a turn. Therefore, having grieved a little, I mentally reconciled that there would not be these beautiful moments. Everything that depended on me, I did.
I had a plan for weaning. All feedings I divided into types:
1. Intermediate – which are not related to sleep.
2. On an afternoon nap.
3. At night sleep.
Each type of feeding cleaned on Mondays. Thus, the son and the body for a week got used to the new routine.
For a month we turned off all the feeding. Son was exactly one year old. He did not cry even once and did not ask her. Do not give, well, okay. Breast never had podtsezhivat. Apparently, my moral attitude helped this.
Paradox: it worked so hard and for a long time, but turned everything quickly and simply.