This topic led me to write a case that happened last week in our city. Incredible criticism was the mother who went out for a walk with the baby, putting the reins on him. In fact, I do not understand why this caused such a resonance.
Yes, of course, perhaps I would have been surprised by this device before. Or laugh. Or I would be glad of the resourcefulness of Mom, who thus controls the movements of her child.
But I would not have such a negative, which I watched in the discussion. Apparently, people who had no children and were not familiar with all modern devices took part in the debates.
What are the reins?
What is the reins I learned when I had a daughter, and when the question arose how to help the baby learn to walk. On the Internet, I accidentally stumbled upon information about this miracle device, and went in search of the store.
To be honest, I thought that the reins for children are some kind of curiosity that cannot be found in the afternoon with fire. However, I was wrong. It turned out that this, shall we say, accessory, is very common among moms of young children.
So, what is the use of these reins? Firstly, it is an opportunity to teach the baby to walk independently. They allow you to show the child that he can move without the help of his mother. After all, it is psychological fear that sometimes holds back the first steps.
In our case, it was because of fear that we did not go. And long enough! And only the reins helped us realize that walking is not scary and convenient!
Even the reins help to insure the first ridiculous movement of your child. If you are afraid that your baby will bruise himself – the reins will help control his movements.
We gladly used them for a while at the dacha – there are so many temptations, but at the same time there are also dangers. And with the help of the reins, I controlled all the still clumsy inclinations of my daughter.
Of course, not every mother should have reins in her arsenal. It is possible to do without them. But at some moments they really help.
Last week in the internet, in the news chronicles, I saw a photo of my mother, who was walking with her baby, putting the reins on him. I would have passed by, but I was struck by the headline to the photo – Child Mockery. And below were wild judgmental comments.
The people who saw this photo decided that their mother put a dog leash on the child in order to restrict the child for a walk. Walked through the qualities of this mom in full. I, frankly, could not resist and entered into the discussion!
Of course, most of the critics did not have children. Therefore, they were not in the subject and did not know that there are such devices for children as reins.
I had a preventive conversation and explained to the people that this was not a mockery at all. That on the contrary, Mommy helps her baby, insures him against dangers. And nothing in it is so creepy and terrible!
But I concluded that in the city it is better not to go for a walk with your baby, putting the reins on it. You can be criticized by those who have no idea what this miracle device is!
Momma, did you use the reins? Do you think this is an assistant for mommy, useless adaptation or mockery of children?