Dads … The source of our constant worries and anxieties. We know them as peeling, having lived with them for more than one day. We know all their habits, cons and weaknesses. And because it is so scary at times to give your common child to them even for a while … But still they are so different.
So, dads – a detailed classification of one embittered divorcee, as my friend called the article.
He is always aware that with his child. Because the child lives with him, not with her. He takes the kid to the kindergarten in the morning, picks it up in the evening and tells bedtime stories. He clearly knows when to give what kind of medicine to a child and is well-versed in the pharmacy space. He listens to Ryaba’s chicken for hours, putting the book aside and only sometimes wistfully looks at the WOW tag. He goes to all mornings and understands the size of tights. He does not need to be reminded that the butterfly on them is on the ass.
Moms in the clinics let him out of turn and only sighed wistfully.
He allows the child absolutely everything. Appearing once a week, he spends money on what she can not afford: trips to rides, pizza, video games … It is unlikely he will pay attention if the child begins to cough or tear his pants – for him it does not matter. For him, the main thing is to create an image of a caring parent who is better than mother, and the child, in fact, is just a toy. Alimony does not pay, because it is also spent on the child.
He is constantly busy and rarely finds time to communicate with the baby. Most often his excuses are work. And most often it is. He lists the alimony on time, calls once a week at the same time asking if everything is in order and sometimes he calls in to make sure. He will never miss a birthday or other holiday. His gift is always something necessary and rather expensive. If necessary, he will take care of the child on himself and deal with them with honor.
On his desktop, a general picture with a child. Vkontakte is an avatar with a baby in her arms and the album is my pride. The whole district is sure that he is the ideal father whom this bitch separated from his heir. Monthly deduction alimony only support the angry mood of others in relation to this. And her phone has been silent for several months, because she stopped answering questions about her personal life, and the life of a child does not interest him. The interest of the health of the baby is limited to the question of sick? And you can not answer – he does not care. Gifts are chosen by his new love, and he himself will not even deign to ask about the presence of Skype – after all, it will deprive him of such a convenient position, I have no money for a call. And in general, the new wife requires love and attention. Do not meddle with your children.
He saw his child only three times, and two of them were in photos from acquaintances. He knows his name, his date of birth is very conditional. The child saw him only once and knows how her mother’s old friend, who was accidentally encountered in the city. He would not even think to call the child for Christmas or for his birthday. The birth certificate is a dash. Dad seems to be there … More precisely, he was. Participated in conception and decided to limit it.
Oh, he knows what she is afraid of and how to make her sicker. He knows all her fears and weaknesses and skillfully manipulates them. He even pays alimony – once every three months he transfers 10 rubles to her card – so that she cannot be deprived of her parental rights. When meeting with the child, he will tell him a sentimental story of how she does not allow them to meet and in general that she is to blame for everything … He is ready to go to any length if only to make her life unbearable, without worrying at all about how This goes around comes around baby.
Of course, all these images are exaggerated. But we, moms are real. And many of us have to deal with such popes, who are also quite real. I wish to preserve the courage and wisdom of every woman who has to communicate with her former man and try not to push away from her and the child that piece of male mother and male father who hides in their souls. And to stand with dignity another meeting with the show and the nothingness.