How many people – so many opinions. Men differently perceive their role in raising children. Some fathers stand up with pleasure at night to the crying child, so long as the mother is more rested, while others declare: It’s not a man’s business to bathe the child !. But do men have the right to say so, thanks to whom the little man came into the world?
I agree that there are different situations in the family, but I do not agree with the fact that dad does not take part in education at all. The father is as important to the child as the mother. Only in a full-fledged family, a child can grow up happy and with positive thinking.
What does not mean a man’s business to bathe a child? Dad, like mom, has two arms, one head, two legs, etc. As for the joint child, there is no male and female work at all, if this does not concern the physiological differences between a man and a woman (have a baby, breastfeed). Moreover, starting from infancy, the close relationship between the child and the mother, the child and the father begins to emerge. If a man declares phrases like the title of the article, then what kind of relationship can there be?
Taking care of a child, raising him, caring for him is the common responsibility of his mother and father, who together conceived him. Separation into male and female parts, divides the family with a large deep gorge, at the bottom of which the baby lies in the cradle and smiles at you with its sweet, genuine toothless smile.
Read fairy tales, learn numbers and letters, draw, learn poems, bathe a child, cut nails, wipe ears, feed from a spoon, dress, sing a lullaby, etc. – This is not a man’s business and not a woman’s business, but the business of parents who have decided to give birth to a child and raise it.
Love your babies! They are the meaning of our adult life. For the sake of happiness and the smile of a child, you can sacrifice your (sometimes stupid) principles.