I want to tell you how difficult the path to motherhood can be.
At the age of 18 I got married. There was love, the desire to always be together, my parents did not mind, although I was very young. Everything in life seemed wonderful, I wanted to live for each other, and the child? … Still have time.
Studying at university, work — all this made it impossible to think about the little one. Blithely 2 years passed until my mother started making hints about her grandchildren. We decided that now is the time to become parents. After the first attempt there was a delay of 8 days, I was sure that I was pregnant, but it turned out that I had not.
Next 2 years of trial and nothing … I wasn’t particularly worried, because one doctor said that there was such a belief: if 2 years didn’t want children, then two more didn’t work out … But when I was thoroughly examined, it turned out that I was completely horrified by gynecology! Hidden bilateral inflammation of the ovaries. The treatment was long and difficult, but as a result, everything returned to normal, I started planning, but again nothing happens. Charts, basal temperature, thermometer became my friend … Every night tears, prayers. Friends of children are taken to kindergarten, but we have nothing …
I decided to check my husband again (until then, everything was normal). And here it turns out that he has serious problems … 10 percent of live sperm, a strong prostatitis. We begin to treat it – prostate massages, injections, pills, a strong dose of antibiotics, from which my husband had problems with the stomach. We went to healers, underwent various courses of treatment. The prostatitis is gone, but still there was little live sperm and the mobility was reduced.
The doctor said that these are the effects of antibiotics and everything will be restored. He advised Speman. Took 4 months, made sperm … and almost nothing. No changes. Then I read on the Internet that with such problems help vitamins Speroton. 2 months their husband drank. Surrendered semen and, like, there is an improvement, but it is clearly insufficient. We decided to continue, the husband also ate nuts every day, tried to make him many dishes with vegetables, especially with tomatoes. A few more months at this pace. They were going to another spermogram and then I had a delay.
I was even afraid to do a test in order not to be disappointed, but on the 4th day of delay I did … and there …. Well, a very weak strip, which no one except me saw, BUT THIS IS THE FIRST positive test … I repeat: no one, except me, this strip that day did not see, but she was!
The next day is a new test. HOORAY! TWO strips for sure!
At the very beginning of pregnancy I had a serious shock – a close family friend died. I was very worried, although I understood that it was impossible to worry.
But, fortunately, the pregnancy went well. With tears of joy, I remember the first ultrasound scan, the first movements, and the first look at my daughter. I AM A MOTHER.
Believe – there is a miracle! And now next to me is the best baby in the world. I thank God every day for this miracle. I ask her health. And may the joy of motherhood always be in your life. Because this is the best feeling in the world!