Главная 7 Little kids 7 Is it possible to beat the child by the pope, kids

Is it possible to beat the child by the pope, kids

Have you been beaten as a child by a pope? I was beaten. And thick soldier belt. I don’t remember what kind of wrongdoing such punishments were applied to me, but I clearly remember the pain, resentment and annoyance of this educational procedure.

Every day I walk with my daughter on the playground. And every day several moms with children walk with me. Children, for the most part, are between 1 and 5 years old. And you know what attracts my attention most when walking? Cries for children and slaps on the pope.

Now, when I see how another mom beats a child, it jars me up a little. A big man beats someone who cannot give change physically and morally, as it depends entirely on him.

Sometimes I try to track down the moment when the parent crosses the line and resorts to physical strength. Often this happens when the child, after the next request of an adult to stop, continues to do something: throws herself with sand, runs out onto the road, climbs on a dirty hill in clean pants.

And personally, it seems to me that parents simply do not have enough knowledge about how to reach the child. Or end patience. Or just laziness to repeat the same thing for the tenth time.

On my questions about whether or not they feel sorry for the children, many parents answer: Well, we were thrashed as a child. And nothing. Grown normal. Is it normal? And do not do anything with sweeping palm strokes on a small bottom (head, back, arms) of your baby?

Most of the child psychologists say that it is impossible to use physical punishment for educational purposes! Strikes on the pope offend and humiliate the baby. They create the conviction that he is helpless in front of any adult person. And they bring up fear in him, not morality.

In later life, it plays a bad service to an adult child. He does not know how to refuse, break off painful relationships, defend his rights, ask for wage increases or improved working conditions, and often suffers physical abuse from a partner. After all, beating means loves and cares.

In a similar way, a person does not know and does not know how to communicate with his child in such a way as to convey the necessary information. And, with a feeling of powerlessness, pulls a big palm towards a small, defenseless person.

And how abroad?

I can’t talk about all countries, but I’ve heard about the situation with physical punishments in Canada, USA, France and Germany. It is forbidden to beat children in these countries! Moreover, these are not empty words. Any neighbor can and should call the appropriate services and report on the physical impact on the child, if one was a witness.

This applies not only slaps, but also disrespect for children. I heard a story from my friend, who lives in Canada, about how neighbors several times called guardianship services to Russian immigrants, as a young mom, out of habit, put a stroller with a sleeping baby to walk under the window.

To my great regret, such mentality is alien to our people. We consider ourselves to be full owners of our children and we can do whatever we want with them. And then we wonder why children grow up and do whatever they want with their old parents.

I live in an area infested with alcoholics and drug addicts. They do not work and retire elderly parents to their dependency. I also have a question for them, whether they feel sorry for their old men? That’s just ask him I hardly dare.

Let us respect our children as individuals from the very moment of their conception! Read clever books about parenting, and if necessary seek help from soul specialists. And invest in your children what will give in the future only wonderful fruits.

And you beat your children on the pope?

О admin

x

Check Also

Child kosolapit, kids

My two daughters began to walk quite early, at nine months they were walking quite ...

Child and dog, kids

Often I meet ads from the SOS series! Zarebemenela, take the dog in good hands. ...

The child and the cat: who is the boss, kids

I had 2 cats. One is older – home, the other is quite young – ...

Child and self-interest: the combination of the incompatible, kids

The birth of a child is a miracle of miracles, the ability to give a ...

Baby and gadgets kids

It seems to me that today there is practically no modern child who would not ...

Baby and alcohol kids

It would seem that the child and alcohol – two things are incompatible. And medical ...

The child in the hospital, kids

What could be sadder than a child’s illness? Is it only that he is forced ...

The child is even afraid of toys. What to do, kids

When my baby was very small, it was impossible to surprise or frighten her. She ...

The child is afraid of doctors, kids

The problem of children’s fear of doctors is not new. Many kids do not like ...

Baby a year and five months, babies

I can not believe that he is already a year and five months. He is ...

11 months baby has no teeth, babies

The appearance of the first tooth in a child is a holiday for parents. This ...

Baby swaying in transport, kids

I like to travel. Highly. Just like that, just get on the bus or in ...

Baby food in 9 months, babies

The introduction of complementary foods is a topic that I have now constantly on the ...

Rickets in children, babies

Any disease in a child causes the parents fear for him. Unfortunately, my youngest daughter ...

Relaxing foot massage for kids, babies

Relaxing massage has a positive effect on the development of babies. Neurologists recommend to spend ...

Early lure: good or bad, kids

I had to raise children at different times. When the daughter was born, the early ...

Early development: the reverse side of the medal upd, kids

No one likes smart. No one, understand? Teachers do not like. Pupils do not like. ...

Early child development is a necessity or a whim of parents, babies

Early development in our time is very popular. There are many techniques of various authors ...

Whether to allow the child to chunky, toddlers

This question arose before me when my daughter was more than a year and a ...

Divorce parents, How to avoid stress for the child, kids

I was very afraid that my separation from my husband would have a negative effect ...

Child development in one and a half year, kids

My son is about to become a year and a half. Each mother probably asks ...

The development of memory, kids

Expecting a baby, I, like any mommy, read a lot of literature, and not only ...

The development of thinking in children, kids

We often hear from others: Oh, what a smart kid you have! How clever he ...

The development of musicality, kids

They say that in every person hidden huge talents. Something is given easier, something more ...