Small children are not always affection on the faces of others, there are people who treat children differently. And, probably, we have no right to condemn them, because we are all different, with our own views on the world around us.
We are acquainted with her from school, but we have celebrated 30 years, and Sveta still has no children. And the point is not that she is alone or lacks the means, no. For many years she has a permanent common-law husband, excellent work, a rich life. She just doesn’t like children very much.
Rather, it is simply indifferent to children. And if it shows sympathy, it is immediately noticeable from the outside that these emotions are insincere. And every time we meet with her, she prefers to do it without my daughter. I still remember her fear of my one-year-old baby, who strove to tear down everything in her path in Sveta’s ideal apartment.
I in no way condemn the Light. She just is what she is, this is her right and choice, and this kind of life suits her completely. She is a wonderful friend, an excellent specialist, an educated and lovely girl. And, despite her equal attitude to children, she already has eight godchildren! In addition, Sveta regularly does charity work.
It seems to me that she just has not yet matured for her children. Just not the time yet, but her mother will be beautiful, I’m sure.
This is another friend of mine who prefers childless companies. She spends half of her time traveling, often brings gifts to my daughter, but I can not help but notice how annoying she is to constantly shift her attention to her daughter.
Here, in contrast to the previous situation, there is a small kind envy. Natasha doesn’t deny it – she really wants a child, a loving husband, and this still does not add up. And I take into account the regularity with which our common friends marry and give birth to children, its irritation intensifies.
Sometimes we quarrel with her on children’s grounds. Natasha loves to come without warning, arrange spontaneous gatherings at nearby restaurants and arrange long telephone conversations on the subject of personal life and the imperfection of the world. My life is more adjusted and planned, and the presence of a daughter and a husband leaves little room for spontaneous actions in her.
Honestly, in events without children there are advantages. This is a great opportunity for mom to relax and unwind. And now, when I am asked to come without a daughter, I am not offended, but on the contrary – I am glad of the opportunity to escape from everyday and monotonous everyday life.
The behavior of the child is also of great importance. It’s one thing if you don’t hear it and you don’t see it, but it’s quite another when the entire attention of the company switches to it – it cries, it screams, it scares it, it rushes around the room, etc.
By the way, recently I was told a funny case. At the house party one girl came with a tame baby, and the other went even further — came with a cat! Moreover, unlike the baby, the presence of a cat was completely invisible;)
In any case, you always need to soberly evaluate the rules of time and place and once again think about whether to take the child into an adult company. And the matter is not even in that he may cause inconvenience to other people, but also in the fact that due to the absence of other children on a visit, he will simply be uninteresting there.
And how do you feel about guests with children?