Главная 7 Little kids 7 Baby and gadgets kids

Baby and gadgets kids

It seems to me that today there is practically no modern child who would not know what gadgets are. Cartoons, talking cats, various toys – the industry offers a variety of solutions for kids. And then it depends on us, the parents, whether to give their children phones, tablets, laptops.

I have one friend who gives my son a tablet without any problems. She turns on cartoons for him, and the boy sits with him for several hours a day. And my mother at the time quietly doing household chores. Another friend constantly went with the phone and, accordingly, her son copied her behavior and now cannot imagine his life without this gadget.

There are other parents who hold the opposite position. With the advent of the baby, they hide computers, telephones and do not even turn on televisions, fearing to harm the child. In general, how many people – so many opinions, but definitely, all these gadgets harm our children.

In general, I am surprised at how quickly children learn with new technology. My daughter at 1.5 years old could work with a laptop, phone and tablet better than my grandmother. Itself turned on, turned off, launched music, various toys – in general, it worked at the level of quite an advanced user. Nor did I allow her to constantly sit with the gadgets.

All these modern innovations, of course, pose various dangers:

1. Harm to eyes. Given that everything is just being formed in children, including vision, gadgets with their glimpses of images can adversely affect this function. Our pediatrician said that the child should not look at the screen for more than 15 minutes in one set. And while the total viewing time should be no more than 1 hour per day.

2. Harm to the nervous system. When children watch cartoons in the evening that their parents run on computers, they get overwhelmed. As a result, it is difficult to lay down the baby afterwards, sleep becomes restless, nightmares can appear.

3. Dependence. As soon as the child gets used to some kind of gadget, it is very difficult to wean him away from him! And as soon as the parents cease to give the baby his favorite phone or tablet, attacks of aggression, hysteria and other inappropriate reactions begin. Therefore, it is not necessary to allow such a dependence! After all, this whole technique will never replace communication with mom, dad, grandmothers, grandfathers and friends!

Our fight against gadgets

My grandmother bought a tablet and brought it to our home. During my absence, in order to somehow calm my daughter, she began to give her a tablet. I was totally against it, because after this gadget my child simply became inadequate!

Tantrums, screams, bad behavior – it all started after the grandmother picked up her favorite toy and went home. And I had to fight with a screaming child and calm him down for some time. After that, the tablet has become a taboo subject in our home. Of course, for some time my daughter had a break-up – when the grandmother came, she demanded a toy from her! But over time, everything went.

We also had a struggle with telephone addiction. I could not constantly hide my cell phone, so I explained to my daughter strictly that this is not a toy and that it cannot be taken! Of course, this understanding did not come right away; we went through hysterics. But now my daughter does not respond to my phone at all.

And, of course, a laptop with cartoons! Here, too, I spent a long period of explanatory work – you can’t touch it, you can’t watch it all the time, you can’t watch it closely, no more than 15 minutes at a time. Now we more or less calmly react to the laptop. But also passed through considerable whims!

Mom, share, and how do you develop a child’s relationship with gadgets?

О admin

x

Check Also

Reflexes of the newborn, kids

In the maternity hospital I was lying with my daughter in the room of joint ...

Day regimen of a child up to a year, kids

I want to share my little experience of the regime of the day of the ...

A rare name for a child, kids

Originality is now in fashion, and most parents tend to show it everywhere, even in ...

Rare names of boys, kids

I have a girlfriend with two sons. When 10 years ago she told me that ...

Registering the birth of a child without a husband, kids

It so happened that I gave birth to a child, not being a married woman. ...

Registration of a newborn baby

When a small person is born, it becomes the happiest moment in the life of ...

Child asthmatic babies

We encountered this disease the first time when our son was 2.5 years old. The ...

The child often wakes up at night, kids

After the birth of the baby, almost all parents have the same desire – to ...

The baby often cries, babies

Oh, and my son screaming! In the hospital, I thought he did not know how ...

The child often suffers ARVI, kids

My child was often sick, and I turned to doctors asking for help to strengthen ...

The child walks on socks, kids

Look, we have Egor as a ballerina standing on tiptoe – this phrase I heard ...

The baby is sleeping, or the syndrome is a good baby, kids

Start … Just like everyone else. Marriage, pregnancy, childbirth. And here he is, a tiny, ...

Baby sucks his finger kids

My child constantly sucked on one finger and I began to worry. I was scared ...

The child grits his teeth, kids

When a child gnashes his teeth, it scares the parents, and the different opinions of ...

The child puts the blame on others, kids

It’s not me! And, most importantly, it sounds so convincing. You understand that your baby ...

A child with character or just a darling, kids

The next visit of my grandmother and grandfather left me confused. Although they love their ...

Baby sweats while sleeping, babies

Healthy childhood sleep is a common theme among young parents. All moms and dads want ...

The child knows the world, let’s not disturb him, kids

Very often during their attempts to get to know the world, kids encroach on the ...

The child does not sleep well, kids

Well, when, when will I finally sleep all night! I will lie down in the ...

The baby is crying for any reason, kids

As I dreamed it to bypass us. I remember earlier, when I saw children hysterical ...

The baby cries at night, babies

Do you have a good sleep? Before my baby was born, my sleep was very ...

The child refuses to swim, kids

For almost a month our son has a new fixed idea: I will not wash. ...

The child does not want to eat, kids

Is it hard to feed your babies? My is very difficult. It seems that the ...

The child does not want to talk, kids

Something is wrong. This thought comes first to mind. The child is already more than ...