Constantly call in school: how to behave correctly?
When parents are called to school, it is always stressful for the parents themselves and for the child who is waiting for punishment. If parents are called into the school often, then this is not just a nuisance – this is a problem that needs to be addressed.
If the child is difficult at school, he does not cope with the program, receives many comments, has difficulties in communicating with classmates, it is almost always the fault of adults. The most difficult thing in this situation; To understand, who exactly from adults is guilty and on whom the responsibility for the decision of a problem will lay.
There are always two sides here: teachers and parents. And everyone, as a rule, always seeks to shift responsibility to the other side. While teachers and parents find out who is right, the child himself and his children’s problems remain out of work. So it turns out that there are many conversations, but the problem does not go anywhere. That’s why you should remember the first rule.
Think about what you want from this meeting: help or excuses?
So, you came to the teacher and want to find a solution. Unfortunately, the productivity of your conversation depends not only on you. After all, the teacher may not have such a positive attitude. Some teachers are very fond of calling parents to tell them how to raise children. Especially the teachers with the long experience are inclined to it. They believe that their life and pedagogical experience allows you to interfere in your family affairs. In this matter, be adamant. You do not tell the teacher how he should conduct his subject. Similarly, the teacher should not interfere in your family affairs, it is not in his competence.