Well, what can be compared with the update of the wardrobe, the purchase of new shoes and a set of underwear lace? Changing the engine oil and I pereobul your car in winter tires? What a horror! But no, not terrible. If men did not change our cars, in the winter, it would be difficult for us not only to walk on heels, but also to ride.
He cares about you, you care about him. It’s ok. He keeps an eye on your car, what oil to fill, what gasoline to drive, how to polish the bumper (so that no scratches from your parking can be seen). And you follow him, how to feed him deliciously, how to pamper him and what to wear to him, so that he feels your concern, and you felt what a handsome man you grabbed yourself. All honest. All the same difficult.
There are several methods of influencing men in terms of clothing. The techniques are psychological, you need to use them carefully.
Reception number 1. Bond Jace bond
Movie heroes are not the first dozen years have a huge influence on the formation of fashion and sense of style among the audience. It is a fact. To use. Take, for example, James Bond. You like his costume, your man likes the behavior of this hero. Wonderful. Attempt to action will be the magic phrase dear, this James Bond is so much like you, you just do not have enough of this costume. In the coming weekend you will go for such a suit. According to psychologists, regardless of age, any man choosing a hero tries to behave in a similar way and dress of course as well.
Reception number 2. Gifts are always nice
Men, because they are like big children, always reach for their chests and love gifts. Feel free to give a man clothes. And ask that when you go out together, he should wear clothes that you donated, and not his favorite old jeans and knitted sweater from the time of the hippie hobby. Explain to him that you will be pleased to see that he carries your gifts. And if you meet for a long time, then it is quite possible to assemble for your beloved, a decent and stylish wardrobe.
But if he goes to football with friends, and he does not want to wear the jeans that you gave him, but decisively pulls out his favorite faded jeans and old sneakers, then he hardly needs to cross him. Actually, here it is, and the border – I care about you and tell you what to do. He is certainly a big child, and an adult boy, but still not your son. He is important freedom of choice. Rather, the presence of freedom.
Before whom, if not before friends, show him his choice? Yes, and most likely, his friends, will look the same as he raspalbayski. With thoughts about the time when they squatted on the playgrounds and drank beer. (By the way, it may be that the memories of those days do not allow your man to throw away these sneakers).
Reception number 3. Joint trips for clothes
Many men have a sense of style, but the time to demonstrate it is sorely lacking. It is unlikely that a man alone go to the boutique for a blouse – due to the fact that there is nothing to wear / bad mood / or the chief idiot. Even if he really urgently needs to change clothes (most likely due to the fact that all things are at home, and he turned the coffee over on himself in the car), he will not choose a store by brand or even by price here. He enters the first cozy boutique will choose a sweater for himself (most likely from a dummy), and he will dress him up.
Take the initiative. Offer him to go with you to your favorite store. There are many brands of quite affordable and beautiful clothes that produce both men’s and women’s collections. When using this technique, joint campaigns for clothes, it is very important to control yourself at the beginning of this difficult journey. You have a task to teach a man to good, beautiful clothes and to develop a sense of style in him, and not to scare him away from such stores, so that you buy him quickly trousers, and then you will try on blouses for 1.5 hours. The most important thing: the purchase does not matter what jeans / shoes / gloves, the most necessary, should take no more than 20-30 minutes! More average and unprepared man simply will not survive.